1, work hard
After graduating from college, some people work very hard. They do three or even five jobs a day. At this time, we are still lazy under the covers. How can I compare with others? They are working hard and we are marking time, which is why the gap is getting bigger and bigger.
Of course, this gap can't be seen at first, but it will show up as time goes by. Their efforts and achievements are of course in direct proportion. We just sit in empty pockets and want to achieve something, which is tantamount to talking in a dream.
Step 2 choose
Life choice is very important. When you stand at the crossroads, countless question marks will emerge in your heart. Where should I go? Where is my direction? But for the old classmates, they have already made planning choices.
This will certainly get twice the result with half the effort, but we will be very uneasy when faced with these choices. Because we have no knowledge, there are no plans and rules when choosing. Naturally, we will choose the wrong one, but this choice is extremely important. When we make the wrong choice on the right road, there is only one result and we will never succeed, because the starting point is wrong, just like the opposite direction.
Step 3 help each other
Society is a big family and needs emotional intelligence to support it. People with high EQ and IQ often get along well in society. If we don't know how to be a man, we will take many detours. Students will take the right path and make progress, while we will take detours and go downhill.
One year after graduation, this period is a precipitation period, but we stay in bed. Two years later, students have their own career plans and choices, and have opened a new life path. Moreover, on this avenue, I have made many friends, and I have a high emotional intelligence and often get help from my friends. This is how the gap comes out. We lost at the "starting line", others are working hard, we are lazy, others are making progress, and we are still confused. This is the origin of the gap.