First, college students should have the same thoughts, beliefs and pursuits in love, and put them in the first place. We should take the integration of beautiful mind, noble sentiment and psychology as the first criterion for choosing a spouse. College students are the pillars of the new era, so we should organically combine ideals, morality, obligations and career development.

Second, love is beautiful. It is an important part of life, but it is not the whole of life. College students should put learning first, straighten out the relationship between love and study, and don't spend all their precious time in love at the expense of study.

Third, in the process of love, we should understand more, trust more, tolerate more, respect each other and make progress together. We can neither completely depend on each other, nor demand complete possession of each other.

Fourth, college students should fully realize that love is not unconditionally beautiful, so in order to get better love, we must strictly abide by the relevant provisions of national laws and policies, and we can't do anything special, otherwise we can't harvest beautiful love, and the beauty of love is conditional.

Most young people in their fifties and twenties still seem naive. They are always full of dreams about life and easy to fall in love. In the face of love between men and women, we must first correct our mentality and establish the correct qualities of self-esteem, self-love, self-improvement and self-respect.