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Why didn't the school teach you how to be a man? How should people behave?
How to be a man? I have been thinking about this problem recently. If this problem is not handled properly, it will seriously affect our work. Next, I will talk about these two meanings.

How to be a man? After reading some books, I found some words from my ancestors very enlightening. Mr. Wang Fuzhi, who was called a simple materialist by Chairman Mao, put it very well. He believes that being a man should be "six natures" and "four views". The so-called "six natures", one is "self-detachment". When you are alone, you should be detached from fame and fortune, especially in the current market economy and commodity economy. The second is "dealing with people". When you get along with others, be kind to others. The third is "nothing is clear." It means quiet and far-reaching, very quiet when there is nothing to do, which is related to "self-detachment". The fourth is "doing things decisively." Unlike us, sometimes we are caught in a dilemma, procrastinating, hesitating and making decisions without stopping. This is not right. If we make up our minds, we must make up our minds. The fifth is "arrogance and indifference." Very weak, taken fancy to by leaders, taken fancy to by superiors, entrusted with heavy responsibilities, sealed senior officials, treated them indifferently, that's all, don't take them too seriously. The sixth is "frustrated and calm". People can't be proud every day, and there are times when life is frustrated. Every day, there is no Li Bai. When Li Bai was frustrated, he let out a sigh: "I was born useful, spinning a thousand pieces of silver, come back!" " . In fact, no one used his talent at that time. He still believes that he is born to be useful, so when he is frustrated, he can take it in stride. If we can achieve this "six natures", a person will reach a high level, and such talents can take on great responsibilities. So he went on to "look around". The first is "big things are hard to see." To do great things, to undertake difficult things, and see if he can bear it. The second is "adversity sees prosperity." Look at your mind. Some comrades get carried away. When adversity comes, they complain about others in adversity. They almost beat their chests and feet, even crying. Therefore, people should have an open mind and be honest with each other. Chairman Mao warned us that every party member produced in * * * is hard to be honest and truly honest. The third is "look at self-cultivation when you are angry." In the face of happy things and angry things, it depends on people's self-restraint Some people need to have lofty aspirations and a broad mind to be "happy without publicity, unreasonable without anger". We * * * producers should do the same, have good self-restraint and be unmoved. The fourth is "different opinions". To get along with everyone and act together, we must be like everyone else, don't reinvent the wheel, and do a good job of unity with everyone. This "four views" is very good, from which we can see that Mr. Wang Fuzhi is a very ambitious and caring person. No wonder Chairman Mao praised him as a simple materialist philosopher in ancient China, and he should do the same himself. In a few days, it will be the 40th anniversary of Chairman Mao's inscription "Learn from Comrade Lei Feng" in recognition of the great proletarian soldier Lei Feng. How does Comrade Lei Feng behave? At work, he is on an equal footing with the highest-ranking comrades, but in life, he is on an equal footing with the lowest-ranking comrades. This is very similar to what Chairman Mao said when he was young, "I am a very tall person and a very low person". Chairman Mao's heart is connected with Comrade Lei Feng. "I am a very tall person", that is, I look at the problem far and thoroughly, have high aspirations and pursue a high realm. This is a very tall man. A "very low-level person" means that he can live in harmony with the people at the bottom, share the same fate, have salt and no salt, and be humble to anyone. This "extremely high" and this "extremely low" have created a generation of great leaders and outstanding leaders. * * * Producers should act as the above sages said. If you behave like this, comrades, what difficulties and events in the world can overwhelm us? We all dare to take responsibility! Poverty alleviation and development, western development and building a well-off society in an all-round way are all important and arduous tasks that we should shoulder. If we can achieve this goal, what can stop us? Faced with problems and difficulties, we should have such courage. This is not bragging and cannon. People still need a little spirit. At that time, the Red Army was dragged from 300,000 to only 20,000. In that case, you are pessimistic enough. Who knew that these 20,000 people eventually developed into millions, and drove 8 million Chiang family troops to Taiwan Province Province Island, and gained national political power? Who would have thought? So our autonomous prefecture is a little poor and backward, but we don't want to fall behind, and we are not afraid of poverty. We must summon up the courage to declare war on poverty, backwardness and our own shortcomings, and reach a high level of life, and we will be invincible.