Many people think that "involution" behavior should appear in primary and secondary school students, but in fact, such behavior is also more obvious in college students, but everyone is not comparing academic performance.
If a student buys a pair of expensive shoes in the university dormitory, then in a few days, other students will buy a pair more expensive than him.
Such behaviors include clothes, bags, cosmetics, and even boyfriends and girlfriends. In a word, except academic performance, among college students, everything may become the "protagonist" of the inner paper.
Girls are more obvious than boys, but they have nothing to do with study, and their mood is very complicated after reading it.
This kind of behavior exists between boys and girls, but in comparison, it is more obvious among girls, because girls can compare more things than boys.
If it is to compare academic performance, it is actually understandable. After all, college students are going to find jobs after graduation, and everyone wants to get good employment opportunities, but it is not difficult to understand that the content they compare has nothing to do with their studies. It's really complicated after reading it.
First of all, college students basically have no financial resources, and everything they compare needs money. Such behavior is likely to make students lose themselves and do things they will regret later, which is not worth the candle.
Secondly, as college students, we should regard learning as the most important task, but spend time and energy on things unrelated to learning knowledge, which is also a waste of college students' youth.
Finally, college students should learn to be considerate of their parents. Parents have made a lot of efforts to train a student into a college student, so students should repay their parents with excellent results, which is the best reward for their parents.
College students should establish correct three views, do not "participate" in things unrelated to study, and it is even more undesirable to compare.
In my opinion, as a college student, we should concentrate on our study, and we should not take material things too seriously. In college, what should be "involuted" most is academic performance.
Students can only find better jobs in the future if they finish their college studies with their heart, and they will have more material foundation to have what they want after graduation.
College students should establish a correct outlook on life, otherwise it will not only affect their studies during college, but also affect their future development direction, and the final consequences can only be borne by themselves.
How should teachers and parents guide college students when they discover their involution behavior?
First of all, we should cultivate college students' sense of responsibility. When college students have a strong sense of responsibility, their comparison psychology will be restrained, because when they rely on material things to compare, they will realize that there are more important things waiting for them to do, and naturally they will not spend all their thoughts on comparing.
Secondly, we should criticize the "involution" behavior in material aspects, so that college students can understand that nothing should be done except involution in study, so every college student should put an end to it and let them accept their hearts as soon as possible.
Thirdly, we can strengthen the reward for students with excellent academic performance, make college students willing to spend time on their studies, and make them busy, so that they don't have much time and energy to pay attention to other things.