When it comes to discrimination, I still have deep feelings.
Even relatives will be treated differently because of their income, not to mention the discrimination of society and universities.
Here's a story first: there was a girl in a department added before, which was very powerful. She is a petty bourgeoisie, but she is not particularly rich.
But she is too arrogant to play with the "poor". She is particularly enthusiastic about other people with better economic conditions, and she simply disdains the poor like me.
Too lazy to say a word can be said to be obvious.
Later, one day after graduation, I visited her WeChat, and the circle of friends showed: "Non-friends can only see ten photos".
I just found out she deleted me. I didn't do anything wrong, but the circle was different.
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In fact, I found that there are many beautiful things in the university.
You study hard, someone discriminates that you are a fake top student!
Be a positive energy person, someone discriminates against your circle of friends with X!
If you are not good-looking, others will discriminate against you for being ugly!
If you have no money, others will discriminate against you for being poor!
Even if you don't provoke others, there are some people who have nothing to do to actively discriminate against you.
They can always find a point of discrimination that makes people speechless, and some people are particularly obvious.
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Let's start with discrimination.
I think it is childish and boring for a college student to discriminate against others' disadvantages by relying on his own advantages, and it is also an act without quality.
Look down on this and that based on family conditions. To be honest, the exposed upbringing is just like that.
No matter how poor others are, they won't spend your money, and no matter how ugly others are, they won't let you buy cosmetics. What do you care?
Typical mental illness.
On the contrary, it is those who really have capital but are polite to others.
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So, what harm will this discrimination in universities bring us?
The biggest thing is to be sad and wise and be treated differently.
How would you feel if one person and all the students present gave you an apple instead of you?
Must be uncomfortable, right?
If my psychological endurance is not strong, I will be sad for a long time.
You will also fall into self-distrust and bring yourself mental troubles.
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How to eliminate this discrimination?
First of all, there are some discriminations that you can't eliminate.
This is related to a person's values, and a person's values are cultivated from childhood to adulthood.
It's really hard for you to change the concept formed in more than ten years.
This concept will be consolidated in our own class and finally fixed.
But most discrimination can be changed or even eliminated.
For example, the maturity of the other party's thoughts, such as their own strength, is possible.
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What if you are discriminated against now?
Stay away from people who discriminate against you and find a circle that suits you.
No matter what others discriminate against you, don't forcibly accept it, because it is a spiritual shackle.
Work hard silently, for nothing but yourself.
The last sentence: don't change your original intention because of other people's opinions!
As long as it is right, do it boldly, and the world will reward those who work hard!
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