1. Don't keep sighing.
Regain confidence and analyze the status quo. Maybe I failed in the college entrance examination, or I made a mistake in volunteering. Now I feel that college is not what I want, and I have some negative and pessimistic mentality. But if we don't want to experience the life of senior three, we must first learn to accept the present reality. This acceptance does not mean that we need to give up ourselves. No matter how different the present college life is from the expectation of the future when we were struggling in the third year of high school, this is a new stage of life, which means that we have stood in the preparation area for entering the society. I hope I can adjust my mentality as soon as possible and analyze it in the case of "unfavorable start". Now, what can help me and let me "use" is what.
2.？ Be clear about your goals and change the implementation plan quickly.
I'm not satisfied with the university, perhaps because the professional ranking of the school is not high, or the school atmosphere is not good. Since I feel that I didn't do well in the exam, I think you should have a standard in mind in advance, and you should have your own preparations for college life. It is good that you have a goal! A good plan is an important step in doing anything. In the process of implementation, even if there is no step-by-step implementation for various reasons, the overall direction and framework are there, which helps us to grasp the progress at any time, restore and modify the next plan. Ah, by the way, keeping a diary is really a good habit, and it can be further cultivated into a hobby.
3.？ Enjoy the process.
We should not only face the result, but also enjoy the process and the final "unexpected joy". Before we do anything, we have a very optimistic and stable expectation of the result. Everyone hopes that it can go smoothly as planned, and the failure, frustration and bad results in the process are not our original intention. In the process of pursuing the "external goals" set in advance, will we also realize and get a lot of "unexpected happiness" that we didn't realize? I have seen a movie "Please Wait", which is about Wendy, an autistic girl with strong creativity. She wants to personally send the script to the film company and step into the outside world, and she encounters a series of "bad thoughts" on the way. The ending of the outing in the movie itself is not very good, but I don't feel sorry. Along the way, Wendy bravely opened herself, accepted the world and accepted others. Isn't this Wendy's "unexpected joy"?
4.？ Pay attention to interpersonal communication and network cultivation.
In college, interpersonal communication and network cultivation are also very important and interesting. University societies, student unions, etc. You can exercise yourself well, accumulate experience, learn to adapt to cooperation, export ideas and so on. Maybe when you communicate with your classmates and friends, you can come up with great entrepreneurial ideas! Usually attending classes and playing with friends will make college life more interesting!
5.？ Enrich your spare time and really love yourself.
It can be said that our youth began at this time, and college life is really a stage where you can make your own decisions! At present, the phenomenon of involution in society may be more serious, but as a graduate student, I think I should enjoy it when I can play in college. Of course, it is not a waste of time to "stay at home" or "brush your mobile phone". There is a lot of free time in college life, so you can cultivate and develop your hobbies at will! You can also join a club! Finding and sticking to your hobbies can be a spiritual pillar, and it is your time and satisfaction! Go out for a walk, travel together, eat delicious food and have a look at the beautiful scenery of China!
Generally speaking, universities have not given us a rigid framework. There are many possibilities for college life, and everything depends on your own management. Starting over means a great degree of freedom and happiness. I believe you will live up to your wonderful time. Come on, college life!