Problem description:

College is the best time for students, but it has been a year. I have classes all day, surf the Internet and play. I don't know what real college life should be like! I don't know what I should expect from my upcoming sophomore year! I want my seniors and sisters to talk about the university life in your and their expectations and goals in the second half of the year! So I can find my way in life, Sheila!

Analysis:

Adapt to college life?

(1) mind your own business?

After the baptism of the college entrance examination, freshmen have become lucky in the college entrance examination and entered the long-awaited university hall. They are immersed in the longing for college life and a bright future. However, university is not a paradise or a casino, but a place to refuel before entering a career. College will be different from what you think. The original desire for further study has been realized, and the new goal has not been found yet. It is inevitable that you will fall into a moment of confusion. At the same time, they also feel that the way of life and study in universities and middle schools is completely different, and they need to change their roles as soon as possible to adapt to university life. In college, you should first learn to be a man, and then learn to be a useful person. ?

University life is a collective life and an independent life. Entering the university, the living environment will change greatly. Students come from all corners of the country, and their living habits, temperament and personal hobbies will be different, so some contradictions are inevitable. The most important thing is to properly handle these contradictions with tolerance and understanding. ?

In life, we must learn to live independently. We should establish a correct outlook on life. University life is rich and colorful, so we should study effectively, live in an orderly way, be beneficial to entertainment, communicate intentionally and be moderate? Consumption.

Learn to arrange your own time in your study. A lot of time in college is reserved for yourself. We should arrange time for preview, homework, exercise, entertainment and rest, and control ourselves.

1? Adjust your mentality and start from scratch. Maybe you are the best in high school, an example to your classmates and the pride of your parents. Your classmates are equally excellent. In the past, high school was the best. In this new group, it is not clear who is taller and who is lower. When you get to college, you lose the feeling of holding the moon in the past and feel empty. Don't be depressed at this time. High school is only the foundation, and the university will gradually train you into a professional in a certain field. Everyone who has just entered the university has equal opportunities and stands on the same starting line. As for the final result, it depends on their own efforts. ?

2? Do your own financial management. You should learn to be your own master when you go to college; With parents' hard-earned money, we should consider both material products and spiritual food when calculating monthly food, clothing, housing and transportation. Otherwise, there will be a fiscal deficit, but it is far from hunger. ?

3? "Home" suddenly has five brothers (sisters) with local accents. They will live under the same roof for four years. Meeting is fate. Everyone has advantages and we can share them. Everyone has shortcomings, so we should tolerate each other. ?

4? There are many kinds of clubs in universities. Every time a new student starts school, new notices are posted everywhere on campus, and leaflets are flying all over the sky. Be sure to hold your horses and bear it first. Find the club you are interested in, first look at its nature and previous activities, then talk to the brothers and sisters, see how the reputation of the club is, and finally see if its membership fee is reasonable. If you are satisfied with the above aspects, then sign up! ?

5? Studying in a university is almost like changing teachers, changing one classroom after another, having a noisy class and breaking up after class. Self-study is the main feature of university study. Not only should you digest and absorb what you have learned in class, but even your whole knowledge system needs to be supplemented and improved by yourself. Therefore, in addition to professional study, we should also properly dabble in extracurricular knowledge and enrich ourselves. ?

6? What should I do if I am not satisfied with my present major? It doesn't matter, you still have a chance to choose again in college. If you are still not interested in your major after studying for one year, you can apply to change your major. As long as you pass the prescribed exam, you can get what you want. If you still don't want to go to this major, you can also choose to minor or double major. You only need to complete the assigned credits, and you can still get the certificate.

Should the role of life be changed?

Freshmen should make five changes to adapt to the living environment of the university:

1? The change of social role?

College students and middle school students have different roles in school. In middle school, many of them hold certain positions and are respected learning leaders in schools or classes. However, in a university campus with abundant talents, most people may become ordinary students who do not hold any positions. Freshmen must adapt to this change from famous to unknown, from high flyers to ordinary students. In addition, the social roles of college students and middle school students are different, the psychology and thoughts of middle school students are developing, and their career direction and social roles are not sure enough; The career direction of college students is basically determined, and their social status has been greatly improved. The society's expectations and requirements for college students are much higher than those of middle school students. Therefore, in order to realize the social role transformation from middle school students to college students, freshmen should be strict with themselves according to the standards of college students everywhere, and learn to be a man and do things at the same time. ?

2? Change of goal?

University is a new starting point for success in life and career. The ancients said, "Where there is a will, there is a way" and "Learning must be determined first". College students should wake up from the satisfaction and intoxication of the success of the college entrance examination, formulate their own goals and action strategies in terms of academic, ideological and moral, psychological development and other quality training according to the objective reality of school teaching, enhance the internal motivation of enterprising, and lay a good foundation for re-creating brilliant life in the university stage. ?

3? A change in way of thinking?

Compared with middle schools, universities have a fast pace of life, a large space for activities and more people to make friends with. Faced with these changes in environmental conditions, freshmen should change their way of thinking from "non-adults" to "adults". When thinking about dealing with the problems encountered, we should strive to be dialectical and comprehensive, not idealistic and one-sided, far-sighted, pragmatic and short-sighted, deliberate on the choice of major issues in life, not blindly impulsive or emotional, strengthen moral and legal concepts, and consider the consequences when doing things. ?

4? Lifestyle change?

In middle school, some trivial matters of life depend on the help of parents and relatives. After entering the university, personal life such as food, clothing, housing and transportation is arranged by myself. Autonomy, self-reliance and self-discipline are the main themes of university life. College students should adapt to these lifestyle changes, deal with personal study and life problems independently and reasonably, pay attention to cultivating the ability of independent living, consciously abide by school rules and regulations and work and rest time, and develop good living habits; We should actively participate in cultural and sports activities and second class activities organized by schools and classes. ?

5? Changes in communication methods?

College students and middle school students come from different sources. Most middle school students study in their hometown, and their classmates are full of local accent and homesickness; However, college students come from all over the country, and their language, personality and living habits are quite different, which requires the change of communication methods. Freshmen should pay attention to the change from "self-centered" to "collective-centered", pay more attention to others in the class and be polite to each other in the dormitory. First of all, we should understand each other, adapt to each other and advocate active communication; Secondly, students should respect and care for each other, be sincere and enthusiastic, combine leniency with severity, stress principles on major issues and style on minor issues; Third, in dealing with classmates, we should insist on being kind to others, engage in "all corners of the country" and all-round exchanges, instead of having the concept of fellow villagers, engaging in vulgar styles such as sects and gangs, and paying attention to the harmony of interpersonal relationships. Pay attention to leave a good impression in communication. For example, dress neatly and generously, talk politely, treat people sincerely, be neither supercilious nor supercilious, keep promises and be punctual. We should also eliminate shyness in communication and cultivate the skills of "speaking" and "listening" in conversation. Pay attention to improving the level of personal accomplishment and develop good behavior habits. Cultivate all-round communication skills and do things? Art.

Establish a correct view of love?

When students transfer from middle school to university, they naturally add a life problem-love. There is a saying called "the love that can't be avoided in college". But for freshmen, it is extremely important to treat this problem correctly.

First of all, the pre-university period is a period of high incidence of love (especially for girls) and lovelorn, and it is a frequent "permutation and combination period". Puppy love is not conducive to success, and it is not conducive to freshmen's smooth adaptation to college life and study. Secondly, college freshmen's love is not conducive to correctly grasping the standards of love. Because of the uncertainty of college students' career direction, economic situation and other prospects, they have little social experience and have a poor understanding of real life. They are often full of idealized colors about love and can't stand the test of real life. At the same time, premature love is not conducive to the correct treatment and handling of various problems in love. In addition, puppy love is motivated and one-sided, and its success rate is low. It is often "predestined to know each other and never get together". In short, college students' love is not conducive to the all-round development of morality, intelligence and physique, and puppy love is more harmful than good for college students to become talents. ?

But people have feelings. There is nothing wrong with liking each other, and there is no need to blame yourself too much, but we must pay attention to the following points:

First, draw a clear line between love and friendship. ?

Second, love should be subordinated to learning. For college students, love obeys studies, which means putting studies first, ensuring that reason transcends feelings and truly grasps behavior. ?

Third, we must abide by the ethics of love. ?

Fourth, treat love setbacks correctly. ?

(6) planning for the future?

Entering university is not the ultimate goal of college students. For them, college is just a place to recharge and refuel before entering their careers. Everyone will eventually go out of campus to realize their dreams. However, in fact, many college students don't care about what they will do in the future, don't know what they can do, and have never considered planning their future. "Everything has to wait until graduation." It was not until graduation that I felt: "If I go to college again, I will plan my career from the beginning of my freshman year ..." Fortunately, this "sigh" has attracted more and more attention of freshmen. ?

In short, planning your future means planning your career. Career planning includes planning short-term, medium-term and long-term career goals, cultivating the abilities and conditions needed to achieve the goals, and adjusting your plans and goals according to your personality, interests, personality characteristics, professional ability and social needs. Specifically, it can be divided into the following steps:

1? The first step of career planning is to look at yourself comprehensively, evaluate yourself correctly, and know your interests, abilities, values and ideals, strengths and weaknesses. Dig out the areas that really interest you during college, so as to determine your career direction. Knowing your own values will help you find out how you feel about the world around you and how you live. ?

2? Design several schemes according to your own planning goals, and study the capabilities and conditions required by each scheme. Of course, any scheme should be designed according to its own professional characteristics. Therefore, how to develop your career according to your major is a problem that every freshman should seriously consider. It is the premise of planning target design to understand the professional characteristics and the professional fields that each major faces. While clarifying the professional fields that you want to do and have the ability, determine the best plan according to social needs. ?

3? Understand the specific requirements of each career goal, then implement the plan in detail, and adjust the plan and scheme according to the social needs to meet the needs of career development. ?

4? Participate in internships related to career goals, increase your ability and cultivate your intuitive understanding of career planning. What needs to be pointed out here is that no matter what your career plan is, some abilities are necessary, which is also the reason for the research fever in universities. It is generally believed that some of them are compulsory: CET-4 and CET-6; National computer grade examination; Civil service qualification examination; Accounting professional and technical qualification examination; Teacher qualification examination, etc.

I wish you a happy college life!