Roommates must come from all parts of the motherland, some from rural areas, some from cities, some from remote areas of ethnic minorities, and some from students with local household registration. There are great differences in language, economic development level, living habits and cultural environment, which makes everyone have specific regional characteristics and typical labels.

Every freshman wants to leave a good impression on others, and hopes that his dormitory collective life will be harmonious and harmonious. But the "first cause effect" of psychology tells us that people are particularly vulnerable to the influence of the first impression when making judgments. Therefore, freshmen must pay attention to the creation of the first impression after staying in the dormitory.

What kind of first impression is a good first impression, that is, self-esteem, self-confidence, neither supercilious nor supercilious.

After entering the university, some rural students have a big gap with the children of urban working families in many aspects, such as appearance, clothing and family conditions. It is easy to show inferiority complex, and gradually become taciturn and unsociable, which is especially unfavorable to the formation of good popularity.

Once the first impression is formed, it is really difficult to change it in the future.

Therefore, we must leave the first impression of self-esteem, self-confidence and arrogance to our roommates. Maybe your family background left a very obvious mark on you, but you became classmates with others through your own efforts and lived in the same dormitory, which proves that you are no different from them.

You are here to change your destiny and create a better future. Your efforts are all your confidence. If you don't despise yourself, no one will despise you!

Second, learn to share and be warm and friendly.

University dormitories are basically students who have left their homes. If you are a freshman, you might as well bring more native products from your hometown to school when you start school.

Strangers usually need an "ice-breaking" link when they meet for the first time. If snacks from hometown are used as props to break the ice between roommates, on the one hand, it can avoid the discomfort of chatting, and on the other hand, it can increase the topicality, enhance mutual understanding and trust, and lay a preliminary foundation for the establishment of good popularity.

With a little care, you can get a good first impression. Why not?

Of course, if you want to establish a lasting good relationship, it is not enough to rely on first impressions. In the days to come, whether you share items, snacks, notes or gossip, you will constantly strengthen your first impression that you are willing to share.

It is obviously inappropriate to maintain interpersonal relationships just for the sake of popularity. We must really integrate into the dormitory group, exchange sincerity for sincerity, exchange friendship for friendliness, and give more care and help to others.

But remember, you are only enthusiastic, active and kind to others, and you are by no means a bottomless flattery. You are equal to every roommate. Once someone blindly uses your "indifference", you should learn to refuse.