1. Premise: Learn to be independent and develop the habit of communicating with college students.
We can easily find that before college life, we all grew up under the care of our parents. Under the care of our parents, we are well-fed in many ways and don't need to worry about our own affairs. Of course, we seldom care about strangers, and we don't have to worry about how to get care, so we are very uncomfortable with teachers, classmates and relationships between men and women. Therefore, you will feel that your interpersonal relationship is very poor. Then, in college, we should communicate with our classmates, because classmates are the most common people we meet in college. We college students are all dormitories, so it is very important to deal with interpersonal relationships.
2. Adjust your personality and make yourself enthusiastic and positive.
We will find that our influence will have a great impact on social interaction. When I was a freshman, I was often at a loss in making friends because of my introverted personality. Because of my personality, I really can't make friends. I remember once, when I was attending a club activity, I met my former high school classmate, but I didn't know how to greet her and didn't take the first step bravely, so I didn't talk to her. Later, when I ran into her, she also asked me if I was too cold, and why I didn't say hello to her at the club activity last time. That's true. You need to change your personality. Your warm personality makes others think that you are easy to get along with and willing to get along with you. Lively and cheerful personality makes people think you are very interesting, so they will take the initiative to get along with you.
Many college students are influenced by social conditions, natural environment and their own factors, and their interpersonal relationships are often affected. Only by making changes can we improve our social skills, and relatively speaking, we can make our interpersonal relationships better.