? There was a hot word on the internet for a while: there are mines at home.
? Now this word is also very common in real life.
? The word was originally because of an expression pack of teacher Zhao Benshan. Consciousness usually refers to describing that others are rich, or not knowing that thrift is a failure.
And then expand to more fields. Occasionally buy a slightly more expensive dress, buy a small expensive bag, or occasionally invite a big meal, or accidentally turn into a lollipop, friends will say: there is a mine at home!
But in my opinion, I still have great confidence in having a mine at home. There are mines at home, which means you are not generally rich. If you have money, you will be willful and comfortable, live in your favorite way, do your favorite job and live your favorite life. There are thousands of dollars at home.
One day, I chatted with a friend and said there were mines at home. My friend threw me a golden sentence: some people have mines at home, while others have mines in their hearts.
I'm impressed. In my opinion, in order to achieve my goal, we should do the following five things.
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Highest achievement
I think, one of the most precious mineral deposits in my heart should have the ability to achieve the ultimate. The most network is Wu Yi Shu's score of 6 10 in the college entrance examination, and he was successfully admitted to Tsinghua. And she didn't brush the screen because of the college entrance examination results. Two years ago, she became popular on the Internet because she won the second "Poetry Conference". 16 years old, familiar with more than 2000 poems. It is her confidence and confidence to do one thing to the extreme. Is an inexhaustible mineral treasure in her heart,
Meng Man, an associate professor at Minzu University of China, commented: "The truth, goodness and beauty of poetry penetrated into her heart. Wu Yishu's modesty is not fake, but poetry is in her heart. When she stood there calmly, the poem came out. This is the so-called' belly full of poems'.
? It is Wu Yishu's greatest confidence to make poetry books with his stomach.
? For the rest of her life, her starting point is Tsinghua. She has a bright future, so she must be confident.
2
? study
? ? To turn a skill into an industry leader, you must have enough patience and time to learn. Learning is like a person's vitality. There is a saying: some people are alive, but they are actually "dead". I think this "dead" person should refer to a person who has lost his learning ability and changed his ability.
In our local area, there is an old entrepreneur born after 50, who graduated from primary school, from a rural baby to the manager of a construction company to the chairman of a real estate development group, and has made proud achievements in his life.
Learning won't be his mantra. What he told people the most was his study experience in Tsinghua, which changed the fate of his enterprise.
At that time, the enterprise developed to a bottleneck, and he was particularly confused in his fifties, but he didn't give up or be satisfied. Instead, he spent two years driving three hours a month to Beijing to take several business management courses. It is those fresh blood and novel ideas that make his enterprise out of the predicament and become one of the best real estate predators in the local area.
three
read
? Reading is different from studying. Strong learning ability, more emphasis on learning, workplace and self-improvement, more pragmatic.
Daily reading is not so utilitarian, but a life attitude and lifestyle.
? Reading makes people understand and get spiritual satisfaction. There are not only stars, the sea and poems in the book, but also distant places that we can't reach for the time being.
Books are the crystallization of human wisdom, which can make people stay at home, gain more life experience and increase the thickness of life. There is a saying: reciting a book is like going through three thousand generations, and you can only live a lifetime without reciting a book. That's what I'm saying.
? There used to be a colleague, elder sister, who was a well-read person. Her calm temperament, perseverance and self-confidence have left me behind in the running-in period of marriage, which is simply my sense of existence. I love talking with her about workplace relations, mother-in-law relations, parenting, women's growth, attitude towards life, and I want to hear her opinions on everything. Her views on some issues can often be seen through the essence behind the phenomenon, and the analysis is very penetrating and convincing.
In the days to come, I will continue to harvest a mine of life wisdom through reading, and my life will be full of confidence and calmness.
? four
? think
Diligent thinking enables us to have the ability to distinguish right from wrong, not to follow others' advice and blindly follow others.
A few days ago, another tragedy happened, which made people sigh. The 27-year-old girl left a 14 credit card, and 870,000 owed money to commit suicide. You can imagine what kind of life she leads. She wants to have someone else's "infatuation", she wants to have someone else's brand-name bag, she wants to have someone else's poems and distance. But as long as she has a little thinking ability and correctly faces her own abilities and desires, she will not come to this step.
? What I said here reminds me of the article written by Miss sloth in our writing class. Mr. Ott is the founder of reading culture and a popular writing lecturer. He has published two books, "Tossing Life as Early as possible" and "Everything lost will be reunited with a better you". ? In her article "After paying off the mortgage, my bank card has only 7 yuan left", Ms. Ott described her life: I started writing articles to the outside world for the small house I yearned for, while doing my job well, I used my spare time to run my official WeChat account and write articles to the outside world crazily. Write in the shared living room after work and find a coffee shop during the holidays. Ordinary life is: going to work, writing after work, basically no other spare time.
? Her boyfriend describes her like this: Like an ant moving, whenever she has a little income, she will transfer all the income to a bank card for deposit and then save it bit by bit.
At that time, there must be many friends around her to eat, go shopping and travel together. But she clearly knows her situation and what she wants. Not busy following the trend, not following the trend. Live your life firmly and work hard towards your goals.
I can do this because I have seriously and soberly thought about the life I want to live in the future. With the precious mineral deposits that are diligent in thinking, I think her future life should be more calm and confident.
? five
? emphasize
Li Xiaolai said in his book Taking Time as a Friend: All academic success depends on two things: strategy and persistence, and persistence itself should be the most important strategy. Persistence is actually repetition; In the final analysis, repetition is the investment of time.
Li Xiaolai talked about an example of Mr. Zhong Daolong's efforts to learn English: he insisted on dictating 20 pages of A4 paper every day, never giving up until he reached his goal, and he had to make up for being late for the meeting at night. From1980,65438+10,31to 65438+ 1983 in February, I wrote dictation records of a cabinet, used a ballpoint pen, and broke nine tube radios, three transistor radios and four single players. He began to learn English at the age of 45 and later became a senior translator. He is also the author of Reverse English Learning Method.
? Therefore, sticking to one thing with great patience, perseverance and perseverance and achieving results will increase people's confidence in their future life. That's why there is no stable job, only stable ability, right?
Spend 80% of your time doing one thing to the extreme, learn to study, get used to reading, be good at thinking and persevere. I hope we can all be people who have me in mind and have confidence in the future.