After all, most college students are adults now, and everyone knows what to do and what not to do, and should also be responsible for their own decisions, so as to ensure the freedom of love.
However, some people think that this requirement of the school is actually to protect the reputation of students and schools.
With the relevant regulations, students will think twice before making some decisions, and the probability of premarital sex will be greatly reduced, which indirectly protects students from harm.
After all, although he is a college student, he is still inexperienced and sometimes easily deceived by rhetoric. When he goes to the society and gets married, he may suffer because of his immature ideas, and even affect his future and future.
Although people nowadays are more open-minded and tolerant of many phenomena. But for female students, they still have to know how to respect themselves and protect themselves.
Although college love is relatively free, the proportion from college campus to marriage hall is not high, so college graduation season is also called breakup season.
When it comes to future marriage, although some people don't care so much about whether they have had premarital sex, it is undeniable that there are still some people who have bad feelings in their hearts and may lose a favorite partner.
In addition, we must be soberly aware that whether two people love each other is not necessarily proved by premarital sex, but should be felt through daily care and greetings, words and deeds. In this way, we can test the feelings of both sides through the small details in life, so that we can cherish each other longer and more easily in the future.
Many colleges and universities stipulate that students will be punished for their unmarried sexual behavior.
Zhejiang University, Fudan University, Dalian University of Technology, Huazhong Normal University and many other universities have clear requirements in student management regulations. Some universities do not allow students to have premarital sex while in school, and some universities do not allow students to live in opposite sex dormitories, otherwise they will be punished to varying degrees, such as recording demerits or even staying in school for observation.
For example, Dalian University of Technology clearly pointed out in the graduate handbook that graduate students who have sex before marriage will be given demerits and above.
The scope involved here is relatively wide. For example, some college couples have sex outside school or in hotels. In this case, as long as it is known by the school, it will be given a demerit and above, so relatively speaking, the scope of control is wider and the requirements are stricter.
For China Geo University (Beijing), the corresponding restrictions will be looser. Only students who have same-sex behavior in dormitories or misbehave in public places will be given probation or even expelled from school. Relatively speaking, China Geo University (Beijing) does not explicitly restrict everyone's behavior outside school or in private places.
Generally speaking, most colleges and universities that restrict premarital sex prohibit students from making improper behaviors in schools, dormitories and other places, but are relatively tolerant of behaviors outside the school or in private places.