It is compassion to do things without dispute, wisdom to argue without argument, and tranquility to do things without listening.
Not explaining is tolerance, indifference, wisdom and maturity.
Many times, we don't argue, not because we are incompetent, but because we don't want to have conflicts.
Many times, we ignore it, not because we are guilty, but because we have learned to give in.
Many times, we don't explain, not because of cowardice, but because time will tell.
Living in this world, no one speaks behind everyone's back. No matter how well you do, no matter how true, there are always people who are dissatisfied and hate you. No matter how hard you try, you will be indifferent to those who ignore you.
We can't please everyone, nor can we satisfy everyone. We can't satisfy insatiable people, let alone accept people with ulterior motives. Some people see through it and leave, and some things are put down when they look down.
Life is not long, please live for yourself. Don't care about other people's evaluation, don't care about other people's eyes, just have a clear conscience. Gossip will spread sooner or later. The more you argue with others, the more arrogant they are, and the contradictions will eventually be resolved. The more you explain, the less clear you are.
Don't be silly,
It's a waste to talk too much in front of people who don't understand you. In the hearts of people who hate you, it is futile to do it no matter how good it is. Instead of spending time and energy on people who are not worth it, it is better to keep it for yourself.
People live a lifetime, don't argue, don't ignore, don't explain, argue to show your generosity, ignore to show your calmness, and prove your character with no explanation. As long as you are honest, you dare to face it frankly. As long as you are honest, you can live with a clear conscience!
As long as you know how to manage money, you can realize the freedom of wealth, which also needs to be understood in practice.