Seeing this question reminds me of high school. At that time, everyone told you how important it was to get into a good university. If you don't go to college, your future life will be very difficult. Both teachers and parents are instilling this idea in you over and over again.

Perhaps it is in this atmosphere that the idea of "going to college" is rooted in our brains.

I remember that I didn't study well at that time and I was worried that I wouldn't be admitted to college. At night, I often dream that I can't get into college and sleep on the street. That kind of feeling is particularly bad, just like you were abandoned by the whole world. In order not to make my dream come true, I study hard.

Finally, I was admitted to a university. The moment I received the admission notice, I cried with my mother in my arms. Finally, the dust settled, and I no longer have to worry about not going to college. This is a feeling of relief.

Why are you so worried about going to college? In addition to the indoctrination of parents and teachers, there are two reasons:

0 1 face problem before college, in our time, grades represent everything. Good grades are excellent and will be welcomed. Poor grades will be rejected by teachers, and even often take the blame. For example, if Xueba chats with you, the teacher will say that you are affecting Xueba's study. Both of them have made the same mistake, and the teacher will only criticize you; Even if it is puppy love, the teacher will be partial to Xueba.

If you can't get into college, it's particularly embarrassing, just like telling the world that you are scum, you are worse than others, you are a useless person, and your self-esteem is seriously frustrated.

I don't know what to do without going to college. My classmates are all in college, so it's especially inappropriate for me not to go to college myself. I originally wanted to go to college and then work. All of a sudden, the link to college was taken away, which inevitably made people feel a little flustered. Because I don't know what I can do at all, the young mind will face the cruel society without buffer.

I didn't know how ridiculous my worries were until I finished college. Because even if we go to college, many of us still don't know what we want to do. This is simply a world problem. But I still feel the need to go to college. Although it can't determine your future, it is still very meaningful.