Most of us are ordinary people who are insignificant among the general public. We have to worry about eating and drinking Lazarus every day, even the public face that we can't find when we throw it into the crowd. However, even as ordinary people, we have dreams. Maybe one day the salted fish will turn over.

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Qiu Yingying, a girl in the recently hit urban drama Ode to Joy 2, comes from an ordinary family. She was born in a small third-tier city, her father was a repairman and graduated from an ordinary university. She looks average, works hard in Shanghai and expects to settle in Shanghai. This is the typical child of an ordinary family.

The "little earthworm" in the play is a careless girl. When she falls in love with someone, she can tell the whole world that she was bullied by love rat. She made a hullabaloo about and made no secret of her feelings. If she doesn't like Quyao, she just said it in front of Xiaoqu. It can be said that Xiaoqiu is an outspoken girl, which is "a rectum leading to the brain" in online language.

In Ode to Joy 1, a company employee falls in love with a white supervisor. Later, when Xiaoqu took Director Bai to the 22nd floor for a sister party, she found that she was alone. Although Xiaoqu's practice remains to be discussed, Qiu Yingying blames Xiaoqu for the failure of love, which shows that the earthworm lacks the ability to analyze, judge and grasp the essence of things.

Qiu Yingying has two parents who love her. Although these parents are not rich, they show love for their daughters. In the play, Qiu Yingying is lovelorn, and her father immediately rushes to Shanghai to prepare food for her daughter.

Such parents give Qiu Yingying more love and security, but what they lack is more guidance for Qiu Yingying's outlook on life and world, which will make Qiu Yingying lack the ability to recognize love rat, and will put the blame on Xiaoqu regardless of priority.

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Not only in the matter of falling in love, Qiu Yingying will be confused. In the development of her own career, she also lacks self-determination and initiative. Her first studio was directly fired by her boss because she failed in dating. Even if senior HR Fan Jie reminded Xiaoqiu, she still exposed the white things in public, which directly led to her losing her job.

Later, the little earthworm found a job as a salesman in a coffee shop. At first, she was full of enthusiasm. In order to promote the idea of opening an online shop, she is willing to learn from the tune of "small business expert" It can be seen from here that she still wants to make progress.

However, there is a detail in the play, that is, in Ode to Joy 2, after falling out with her second boyfriend, Qin Ying, she worked in a coffee shop, and the boss came to see her for something. She just cried to the boss and asked him to give her a holiday. This is unprofessional performance. No company can tolerate employees coming to work with such emotions.

It can be seen from this that Xiaoqiu's mind is still immature, and it is understandable that she is in a bad mood of lovelorn. You can hide under the covers and cry at night, but no one will tolerate you more if you cry in the working environment. After all, being able to distinguish the difference between private life and workplace is the proper performance of a mature workplace person.

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After reading Ode to Joy, many girls will sigh that everyone wants to have Andy's wonderful life, but most people still live like Xiaoqiu. It can be seen that in our life, there are still many ordinary girls like Xiaoqiu, and we all live ordinary lives.

But what happened to Xiao Qiu in the play, will we also encounter it? When a boy that a girl deeply likes breaks up without saying anything because he is not a virgin, will he be as crazy as Xiaoqiu? What age is this? Do men still care so much about that movie?

When I saw this plot, I wondered whether this screenwriter had too much life experience or too little life experience. Is there really such a "straight male cancer" in life? Therefore, it is understandable that Xiaoqiu's emotions are out of control, and any girl will collapse when she encounters such a thing.

However, we can only say that this is the difference between two young men and women in their views on love. It is wrong for Qin Ying to break up without saying a word, and Xiaoqiu can't accept this as a normal emotional vent. What I want to say is that it is wrong for Xiaoqiu to vent her emotions on these friends around her.

Every girl on the 22nd floor helped Xiaoqiu when she was helpless. Even if Xiaoqu said something wrong at the party, she later sincerely apologized to Xiaoqiu, but Xiaoqiu was adamant and didn't give Xiaoqu a good face.

When the plot developed to the point where Sister Fan, who had high emotional intelligence and the gentlest customs, had to criticize Xiaoqiu, Xiaoqiu finally realized that she could not control her emotions. But when she sincerely apologized to Andy, Andy's two words of truth collapsed again, so this little autumn's emotional control still needs to be cultivated.

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We are not only attracted by the good stories in the play, but also should learn something from the characters in the play and learn to analyze their personality characteristics and ways of doing things, so as to remind ourselves of our lives.

Just like us ordinary girls, when we see Xiaoqiu's story, we should learn to plan our own life development and control our emotions, so that we won't just cry for help when we encounter something.

Xiaoqiu is actually a kind-hearted ordinary girl, just like ourselves. Even if you don't meet the same wonderful men and wonderful things in the play, whose life is not like the ebb and flow? When you encounter something, the first thing to do is to calm down, analyze the development situation of the thing first, and then learn to use your head to see what you should do to do it well.

When dealing with things, you can use external forces, but you must always understand that you are the leader of this matter, and the help of others can only be help. It is you who make the decision and bear the consequences. In other words, you need to control your life, not just cry.

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A girl I know is also a girl from an ordinary family. Her family is ordinary and looks ordinary, but she has an unusual heart, that is, she has long recognized her situation and knows that only by reading can she change herself. She studied hard all the way, and finally succeeded in counterattack after graduating from graduate school and lived the life she wanted.

In fact, we are all ordinary people, but I expect every ordinary person to live an extraordinary life. After all, everyone can have dreams, even if our dreams may not come true, but when you have a clear mind and the ability to control your life, I believe your life will be more exciting than others.