At school, everyone attaches great importance to their privacy, and they can't delve into others' privacy, nor can they force others to do things they don't want to do. However, when interacting with people, you can't always hide and tell others your secrets, so as to enhance friendship. It is not a bad thing to show yourself to others. Show the public that you can control yourself better and get along with others better.
Second, kindness and friendliness are always the basis of making friends.
Kindness is the most fundamental quality of a person, and friendliness is the most fundamental. Everyone wants to live with friendly people. People should not be too "smart" and be kind to others in order to make more good friends. As the saying goes, good people are rewarded. I am kind to people around me. Although I don't know them very well, I will say hello to them. Some people say that if you have one more friend, you can have one more road.
Third, learn to stand in the perspective of others.
Whenever you make friends, you should learn to put yourself in the other person's shoes and make the other person feel comfortable. Don't feel that every second is like a year. Under unfamiliar circumstances, no one will tell their origins, because everyone's social status, influence and understanding of information are different, which will affect feelings. Therefore, we should treat others equally and make them feel safe, relaxed and dignified. At the same time, we should keep friendly relations with people who are far from our status. This is what "approachable" means. No one will accept others for no reason, and we will like others better. This is why "like-minded" and "like-minded" get along well.