Some people think it is necessary, because he doesn't like staying up late, he needs to sleep at eleven o'clock in the evening, and he may have to get up early to study tomorrow. If other roommates are still arguing at this time, he will have to stay up late.
Some people think it is unnecessary, because his roommate belongs to the underworld, and he can't get excited without sleeping at night. He quarreled with others and slept in bed during the day, keeping others silent. This is very unreasonable.
When it comes to the group of university dormitories, it has always been a commonplace topic.
If you are lucky, everyone is willing to perform sisterhood at an early age. If you are unlucky, you will be the plastic sisters in the palace.
How many people hate a city because of a roommate; How many people have been depressed for four years because of college roommates?
In fact, everyone knows this situation. There are 4-8 people in a dormitory, all from all corners of the country with different personalities, and then they are randomly assigned to a dormitory. Who can guarantee that their living habits are the same?
Pray at most not to be assigned to a great roommate, why not take a shower or wash clothes for several months, like to misuse other people's things, personality quirks and so on.
However, the biggest contradiction in the dormitory is actually the problem of sleeping.
Everyone's living habits are different, especially the college time is relatively free, so you can control it freely, so some people go to bed early, some people go to bed late, some people get up early, some people get up late, and some people choose to stay up late to play/study at night and sleep during the day.
Some people need to sleep, some people need to exercise, and no one likes to make noise around while sleeping, so the answer is yes.
But it is not absolute. The first involves the time period.
According to the rest cycle of normal people, get up at 7 am and go to bed at 1 1 at night. In the meantime, if someone is sleeping, others should keep quiet, because this is his right to sleep.
This is not determined by the number of people. Some dorms have six people and five people play games until the early hours of the morning every day. Do you feel normal? There is something wrong with the one who goes to bed early. That man is unsociable and thinks he is reasonable.
So many times a person is helpless and has no way to fight. He may even think that it is really wrong to go to bed early.
However, the normal work and rest time of human beings is to rest when it is time to rest and sleep when it is time to sleep. It's their business that they don't sleep, but they can't affect my normal right to rest, and I don't have to stay up late to cater to them. They should be quiet.
There may be some dorms that are diligent and get up early in the morning. They may get up at five or six o'clock, but if other roommates are sleeping, they should keep quiet, because it's not time to get up.
Maybe the roommate who is sleeping stays up late at night to write a paper, but he didn't expect to be so early in the morning, so you can't disturb him.
Outside the normal rest time, some people will sleep, maybe study all night, maybe play all night, the latter is more likely.
Whether to remain silent at this time is a question of respect and quality.
If you play games too high the night before, everyone in the dormitory next door can hear you. Your roommate is weakened by your noise and has no respect for them.
As a result, you slept soundly in bed the next day and asked your roommate to keep quiet. I think a grumpy roommate wants to wake you up, and his roommate has no obligation to do things seriously in order to accommodate you.
Daytime is the time for free activities. If you want to sleep during the day because of special circumstances and want to keep your roommate quiet, of course, a qualified roommate will respect you and understand you.
But only if you respect your roommate first. You can play games at night, but don't use a scratching mechanical keyboard, a scratching mouse, a foreign voice or a loud microphone.
If these can't be done, it is a lack of quality and disrespect for roommates. How roommates flatter themselves during the day is their business. You have no right to complain, much less to keep them quiet.
Even normal rest time is actually a matter of respect. If you respect them to keep quiet during normal rest, they will naturally not make noise when they get up early.
In the final analysis, respect is mutual. If you respect me, I will respect you. You won't let me sleep well tonight, and I won't let you sleep well tomorrow. It's hard for everyone.
You kept quiet when I slept today, so I'll wake up tomorrow and see you sleeping, and I'll be light.
Originally, everyone had different personalities and were crowded into a small dormitory. If they are unhappy with each other, they will all suffer in the end. 、
But I believe that those who act later are passive, because honest people are forced to hurry.
At the same time, I also want to advise those who often stay up late to influence their roommates without knowing it. Maybe you feel nothing now because your roommate is forbearing that you don't care about you, or waiting for an opportunity to get back at you.
If you still take your roommates' tolerance for granted and think that they are easy to bully, then your expansion will inevitably bring you bad luck.
As for the question of silence, silence certainly doesn't mean that you can't move or breathe. No roommate would be so harsh. I just want you to do things lightly and don't make a fuss. Keep your voice down when you speak, don't shout; Turn off external sound when playing games and mobile phones. You'd better put on headphones.
If you can do this, your roommate will feel your respect, even if there is a little noise, there will be no complaints.
So, after four years in college, please be kind to your roommate. You never know what people will do if they are forced.