For many post-90s generation, they don't have much pursuit in life, and they don't expect companionship. No one can be alone all the time. The biggest wish is: a room, a balcony, a cat.
Now the older generation will shake their heads when they see young people, and they are still chanting: I don't know what young people are thinking now. I don't cook every day When I am hungry, I order takeout. I usually watch videos on my mobile phone. I just giggle.
Young people just want to respond to this: we don't want our lives to be disturbed, and we don't bother others. We just want to live a simple life!
So what we see in many young people's rooms is generally like this: clothes worn a month ago are still piled there, dishes and chopsticks have not been brushed for several days, and the room is full of takeaway tableware boxes and some confiscated snacks. There is no waste in the small room, but in my opinion, it is in good order and everything I need can be easily obtained. When you enter the room, it is basically spread out. When you rest, you can even hide under the bed for a day. Such a state of life is really unacceptable to the older generation, but it has become the norm for contemporary young people. If you want to ask why it has become like this, young people themselves can't find the answer. ...
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Xiaoshun's hometown is in the countryside. When she grows up, she always yearns for life in a big city. Later, she was admitted to a university in Shanghai. Since then, she has made up her mind to stay in Shanghai. Xiaoshun found a job in Shanghai after graduation, with low income but basically meeting daily expenses.
Xiaoshun, like other girls of the same age, usually likes to chase dramas to kill time, and occasionally buys some delicious food to treat herself. For Xiaoshun, although sometimes life in Shanghai is lonely, she is sick and even has no one to accompany her to see a doctor, but as long as she remembers the past, she will try her best to stay anyway. It turns out that Xiao Shunxiao has always been in charge of her parents. She remembers dreaming every day like other little girls when she was very young, but her parents thought that the most important thing for girls was to find a good man to marry, and dreams were the most useless thing.
In this way, Xiaoshun has been living under the control of his parents. The clothes she wore as a child, the food she ate and the school she went to, her parents would make decisions for her in advance. They don't expect Xiaoshun to achieve much. They just want her to find a job in her hometown after graduation and then get married and have children smoothly. However, Xiao Zun couldn't stand the control of her parents at the beginning of high school, so after she went to college, she decided to get rid of the constraints of her parents completely. For Xiaoshun, it is more painful to go back to her hometown every time than to live alone, because parents and relatives will urge Xiaoshun to go back to her hometown and always remember to introduce someone to her.
For Xiaoshun, he finally lived his own life after graduation, and he still had to work hard every day. Only the evening is his own time. Xiaoshun feels that he has not completely got rid of the life that was controlled everywhere in the past. If he walks into the "arranged life" again, it will make Xiaoshun feel suffocated.
Therefore, Xiaoshun's living alone is like singing the devil's advocate with his parents. Her parents usually keep the house in good order, and since she lived alone, things have been thrown about. Parents have been telling Xiaoshun that girls should be able to cook. Although Xiaoshun loves to eat, she always insists on ordering takeout and never tidies up dirty clothes. She only throws them into the washing machine when she needs to wear them.
Xiaoshun thinks this kind of life is quite good, at least she is not repeating the past life. ...
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Lin Yan is working in Beijing now. He was born and brought up in a small city. After graduation, Lin Yan stayed in Beijing to realize his dream. Now he likes his job. Although his income is not high at present, there is still room for improvement in this line. Lin Yan is full of hope for his future.
Lin Yan likes cleanliness. He usually manages his life well and is self-disciplined, but he has no plans to get married yet. For Lin Yan, if he didn't meet his dream "fairy", he would have a better life, and he also hoped to put his energy into his work. In this way, Lin Yan is now in his thirties, but he has never met anyone. His family was very worried about his marriage, but Lin Yan's attitude remained unchanged. If there is no suitable one, it doesn't matter even if a person lives a lifetime. In fact, Lin Yan, like many post-90s generations, believes in Buddhism, is natural and not demanding, but in the eyes of her parents, she becomes laissez-faire and irresponsible.
Although an uncontrolled and unhealthy lifestyle is really not worth advocating, contemporary young people are choosing the same lifestyle, which seems to reveal a message invisibly. Perhaps this is the way of life created by the times.
In fact, the enthusiasm of contemporary young people for life is the same as their pursuit of their own life ideals, and they are also full of fighting spirit and passion in the process of pursuing their dreams. It's just different from the older generation in the past. Today's young people face greater pressure in life, so they need more time and space to relieve the pressure.
A TV series, a funny short film and a pop music, a messy room and a carefree attitude towards life may just be that young people want to find an exit in a high-pressure environment. They don't ask too much, they just want to be themselves!