Just out of the ivory tower, I don't know anything about the wonderful world opposite, I pursue perfection in everything, I have high expectations for myself before I go to the workplace, and then the greater my hope for the future, the greater my disappointment, so self-positioning before applying for a job is extremely important.

1, self-positioning

Before applying for a job, you need to make a preliminary prediction of your own quality and make a scientific evaluation of your major and interest. In this process, we must avoid areas that we are not good at, and we need to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses. The so-called "knowing people is wise, knowing people is clear", and after objectively analyzing yourself, you will have expectations for the job you are applying for. According to Max Weber, a sociologist, the workplace is divided into three categories: politicians (with high power but average prestige and economic status), scholars (with high prestige but average economic and power status) and businessmen (with high economic status but average prestige and power status), and decide which category to engage in in in the future. Then, according to the standards of this kind of workplace, we should pay attention to cultivating our own literacy in all aspects in our daily life.

Next, we make a psychological orientation for our career. In this process, we may be "waiting for the rabbit" because we are a famous university or highly educated. We are "choosy" about our present job, and finally we can only feel inferior more and more, so we need to be willing to "bow our heads" when applying for a job, because if we want to climb another peak, we must first reach the foot of the mountain. Therefore, a reasonable and accurate psychological orientation in the workplace is an important guarantee to ensure the future job-hunting effect. We must establish the concept of "I am only useful when I was born" and go to the workplace with absolute confidence and full enthusiasm.

2. Market analysis

Self-orientation, job-hunting psychological orientation, followed by market analysis, which requires us to collect information extensively, analyze our expected occupation, understand the market demand, understand what skills the market needs for such talents, and the reasonable salary orientation of this occupation. Next, it is necessary to conduct a detailed analysis and understanding of the employer, and it may also be necessary to conduct a detailed analysis and understanding of the entire industry. In this way, in the process of finding a job, you can fully show your professional quality and self-cultivation.

In fact, whether it is market analysis or self-positioning, what we will eventually find is the gap between our current situation and actual demand, that is, the "supply-demand relationship", and what we will do next is to sell ourselves to employers in a reasonable and appropriate way. The former president of France once said: "Man's destiny is an opportunity and the ability to seize it. An important condition for seizing the opportunity is that you have enough self-confidence. Therefore, a positive mental state is extremely important in the process of job hunting. You should face the challenges in job hunting with full enthusiasm and mental state.

Preparation 2: Write a resume.

Resume writing is a crucial factor in the process of job hunting. Resume is another face of job seekers, and the quality of resume is the key to winning interview opportunities. Therefore, in the process of writing, we must consider carefully, including a series of small details such as terms, words and expressions.

The need for a job resume is based on the principles of "conciseness", "clarity" and "clear purpose". In the process of writing, you need to clearly see the target of your resume. First of all, we need to change roles, analyze the objects of resumes, and find out how to express them to win the satisfaction of employers and get opportunities. Then, in the process of writing, you need to successfully present yourself, take good care of your resume and highlight your style and characteristics. Carefully write the content, layout and other elements of your resume. If necessary, you need to consult a professional teacher to read and revise. Resume writing needs to be elegant in common customs, not blindly following the crowd, and has its own style and characteristics.

Preparation 3: Job hunting etiquette and communication skills

1, job hunting etiquette

In job hunting, we often think that the job we want is technical, not tackling key problems, so why care about clothes? This idea is incorrect. In job hunting, only once. As the saying goes, "clothes make the man", then your clothes are very important to show your mental outlook. Therefore, in the process of finding a job, people usually dress professionally. Men's suits, ties and leather shoes are essential items. There are many kinds of suits, including the number of buttons. Three-button, two-button and one-button suits are more common, so you need to know how to button them when you wear them. Then there are shirts, usually white or light. It is more appropriate for the shirt sleeve to show the suit about 1- 1.5 cm, so it is a tie that highlights its youthful vitality. The choice of shoes, socks and backpacks is also very important, so these need to be completed in advance before applying for a job.

2. Dining etiquette

As we are about to enter the workplace, we must pay attention to the etiquette of dining. With the development of the times, Chinese and western dining etiquette deserves attention. What aspects should we pay attention to when eating Chinese food? Every move of eating shows a person's quality. For western food that pays attention to beauty, it is even more important, including the use of tablecloths, cups, knives and forks. This requires a lot of attention, and so does the dress when eating.

Dining is also a science, which requires us to pay attention to study at ordinary times and gradually develop good dining habits.

Step 3 communicate

In the process of job hunting, communication with employers is essential, and attention should be paid to listening, speaking and watching. According to the general norms of communication etiquette, what you say and what you hear are basically 1: 1. The eyes are another window of the soul, so eye contact is extremely important in communication. Your eyes can tell whether you are sincere or not. When others say yes, they need to nod appropriately and smile naturally. Don't interrupt others casually. Communicate calmly and naturally. Because employers attach great importance to this in the process of job hunting. Because people are social animals, they communicate with people all the time. Successful communication with people is the key to doing everything well.

In the process of communication, what you need is your own movements, sitting posture and standing posture. How to show your positive self by sitting? Generally speaking, you sit in two-thirds of the chairs and don't lean forward. Lay your legs flat, your arms droop naturally, or lie on your legs. There are all kinds of standing postures that conform to the specifications, and choose the standing posture that suits you according to your own situation. Don't make small moves in communication to show your seriousness and concentration.

4. Communication skills

What is communication? Communication is a process of transferring information, thoughts and emotions between individuals or groups in order to set goals and reach agreement. Then in the process of job hunting, you need to be careful not to gush, but don't be too silent. Show that you are good at communication and don't leave a bad impression on others. Other details are discussed in the communication, and here we focus on the expression of language. Our China culture is profound, and a simple expression reflects the speaker's mentality. How to express yourself without affectation and show sincere attitude towards others, so as to narrow the distance between communicators.

Speak generously, express naturally and fluently, psychologically eliminate the vigilance of others and gain their acceptance. In the process of communication, we need to avoid being self-centered, and we still need to change roles in this process. This makes the communication atmosphere more harmonious.

In short, there are many aspects that need attention in the workplace. This is not a short study and exercise time, which requires us to pay attention when communicating with others. Gradually form a good habit. In fact, the aspects that need to be paid attention to in the process of job hunting can be summed up in two words: "details" and "mentality". I think if we can do well in these two aspects, you will be the winner in the battlefield of job hunting.

People who are always ready for opportunities can only make a simple understanding of these in a short time. All kinds of abilities are not cultivated in a short time, so before going to the workplace, you need to read "Workplace Classics" in advance and try to show your excellent self to the employer.