Meeting in different parts of the world is a kind of fate, and it is even more lucky to fall in love.

Some time ago, I saw a topic in Weibo Hot Search: What kind of experience is it to stay in a dormitory with someone you hate? I am curious to open the comment area and look at everyone's spit, which is a little lucky.

I'm glad that my university doesn't have so many intrigues, and I'm glad that I met the most beautiful college roommate in my youth.

I have seen or heard too many examples of disharmony among college roommates, but I think it is normal for college roommates to fight among themselves.

It's right to think about it. After all, everyone comes from all corners of the country. It is normal to have a bad temper, and it is harmless to quarrel occasionally.

Sometimes I really feel that fate is particularly wonderful. It can make people who don't know each other know each other, and it can also make people who don't meet each other.

So what I want to say is, don't care too much about why you meet someone in college, because even if you don't meet ta in college, you will meet him one day.

Fate means that whether you like it or not, the people you should meet will cross the east, west, north and south.

When everyone is talking about college roommates tearing, I still believe in the friendship between roommates.

In my opinion, a good roommate is to hurt each other and compromise with each other.

Three years is not long, short and not short, enough for cool thin people's hearts and feelings. I still remember when I was a freshman, everyone's face was alert, and everything was said in the blink of an eye.

I remember when I was a freshman, I didn't adapt to the atmosphere of the university. I feel that everyone is a closed individual, and I am too lazy to ask many things you don't want to say.

But I don't know when the four of us began to open our hearts and talk about everything, and began to run wild with each other regardless of the image, and began to hurt each other and encourage each other.

Sometimes I feel that everything is doomed, just like you are in the north of the motherland, and we are gathered in the south of the motherland, which is wonderful and beautiful.

We are like Christine's song: "I didn't like seeing you for the first time, and then we were so close." We are like summer and autumn, but we always turn winter into spring. "

Perhaps, this is the beginning of fate, there will always be a process of not liking each other, and then there will be a chance to pester each other.

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I believe many people will think that "roommate" is a unique synonym, closer to friends, but seems to be less than relatives. It is a feeling that "friends are above, relatives are not full".

But in my opinion, a good roommate can be friendship or affection.

I remember the strange circle of illness in my second year of high school. After three other people in the dormitory took turns getting sick, it was my turn to succeed.

A high fever in the middle of the night caught the other three roommates off guard, and they didn't sleep well. One roommate even stayed up all night.

You can still feel their panic and anxiety in a daze. Every few minutes, I can feel my roommate wake up, I can feel the towel changed repeatedly on my forehead, and I can also feel the coolness of alcohol infiltrating into my forehead. The action lasts for one night repeatedly.

When I woke up the next morning, my roommate changed my towel and shouted, "Are you a pig? You don't feel anything when you have a high fever? " It warms my heart.

I think a good roommate is probably like this. When you are sick, you will be scolded for not taking care of yourself, but when you turn around, you will worry about you and be busy.

In fact, "roommate" has many pronouns. It can be a meal friend, a bed friend, or a relative. They are the people who clamor for you to lose weight all day and don't forget to bring you noodles when you turn around; They are people who don't like your ugly sleeping posture and will sneak into your bed when you are not looking.

The ancients once said, "Only those who keep company with others, push their elders and hide their shortcomings can grow up." I think a good roommate is probably like this. They know all the shameful things about you, but they will keep your good image secret.

It is a fate that the vast sea of people can meet in a corner of the motherland, and it is even more rare to love and kill each other. It is said that bosom friends are hard to find, but it is not easy to meet several good roommates, especially in this cold university. They will make this cold world steaming, and they will make your quiet life full of "smoke".

The most common situation in our dormitory is that two people "fight" for a toilet, and then they are deadlocked. Finally, the third man quietly walked in and closed the door of the toilet, leaving the combatants standing there looking at each other. Of course, the price of the third party coming out is to recruit two more people to attack, so the long battle began.

In our opinion, nothing can't be solved by playing in one place. If not, there are two more games. When we are depressed, we like to invite one or two people to "learn martial arts" and finally vent our grievances quickly; When it's cold, we also like to run wild with each other, which makes us boil all over.

I think the comfortable roommate relationship is like this. It lets you take off all your disguises. You don't have to pretend to be strong or quiet. Just be yourself. When you are willful, the whole dormitory is requisitioned. When you are sad, everyone will be a snuggle arm.

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Good roommates are intertwined and don't bother each other.

On a whim, we like to sing in the dormitory, no matter whether it is out of tune or not, just enjoy it. When the course is busy, we each wear headphones to do our homework, no matter whether we ignore someone or not, just concentrate.

We are all crazy girls and independent individuals.

We all have our own things to do, and we also have our own circle of friends to run. We won't break up because you don't accompany me to dinner or help me with the express delivery. When you are busy, you are busy; In their spare time, they meet to squeeze the canteen, and then the four of them go back to the dormitory arm in arm.

A good roommate relationship is like a good relationship. It doesn't need you to cater to it deliberately, and you don't have to worry about being excluded. It gives you space to be alone and opportunities to get along with others.

I especially like a sentence in Forrest Gump: "The gradual maturity of human mind is a process of gradual elimination. Know what is most important to you, know what is not, and then be a simple person. "

I think college is a process to make your mind mature. You don't need company to reduce your cowardice, and you don't need to hide in the crowd to reduce your loneliness.

You no longer need too many flowers and applause, and a few people can live into a lively team; You gradually narrow down your friends and make it simple and happy.

Epiphany, in fact, how many like-minded people in the world are just torturing each other, grinding through love and each other, but grinding through two different problems. Therefore, in college, you should not only have the ability to get along with others, but also have the courage to endure loneliness.