The contents of this book are as follows:

1. What do universities want to learn?

The main difference between college students and non-college students is definitely not whether they have mastered a professional skill ... A person who insists on a wrong view after independent thinking is more worthy of recognition than a person who accepts a correct view without thinking ... Plants can grow on campus year after year, but we are destined to be replaced by another group of people soon ... Although every time we catch a fish, we must weave a net if we want to catch a fish. ...

Second, life planning: the choice of three forks in the road

No detours are shortcuts ... career, business, academic. At this fork in the road of life, where will you go ... instead of competing with 100 people for five positions, it is better to compete with one person for one position ... Academic spirit should naturally keep enough distance from the noise ... Shopping malls are not afraid of any myths. You may be the next legend. ...

Third, there is no hot or cold major, and there is no high or low school.

No employer will think that you represent your school or your major ... Since it is a probability, there is more than one possibility ... If you choose an academic, an unpopular major is easier to achieve than a popular major ... Cross-major has almost become a fashion ... The power struggle between universities has reached the postgraduate entrance examination room and the talent market, which turned out to be so insignificant. ...

Fourth, we must not specialize in one industry, and we must not be single-minded.

It's better to practice a thousand tricks than one trick ... 10% is not 100%, but zero ... In this real society, truly realizing personal value is the most respectable, dignified and dignified thing ... If you want to know what you need to learn, the best way is to pay attention to the recruitment information ... Many majors have become the art of killing dragons because they don't have the effectiveness of their professional expertise ... Why?

Students who don't skip class are not good students.

Don't skip any class, just like skipping any class ... The key to going to college is to learn how to think ... There is nothing wrong with skipping classes, but don't skip classes ... English corner is definitely not a place to learn English ... If you lose your English major, you will lose everything ... The recruiting unit is a place to use talents, not to train talents ... You should skip classes and ask teachers to give you high marks. ...

Sixth, the dialectics of work-study program.

For poor students, the first thing to do is not to earn money, but to save money ... Most girls use computers as DVD players, and most boys use computers as game machines ... In this age when the hymen can be forged at will, what is easy to believe ... Attitude determines everything ... When learning takes a secondary position, college students can only say that it is a part-time job. ...

Seven, doing things is not as good as being a man, and connections determine success or failure.

Learning is not as good as doing things, and doing good deeds is not as good as being human ... If you can speak, you can reduce the struggle for 30 years ... How much money a person has, not the ownership of how much money he has, but the right to use how much money he has ... 12.5% of the money a person earns depends on his own knowledge, 87.5% comes from contacts ... Before the age of 30, he earned money by his major, and at the age of 30.

8. Internet: The Sword of Eternal Dependence and the Sword of Damocles

It takes two hours to write a seamless and excellent graduation thesis ... The technical threshold for starting a business in the Internet field is not high, but the key is market vision and marketing ability ... It is difficult for a girl to jump lightly, but rascal Cai continues to get in close contact with other girls again and again ... Many college students have netizens all over the country, but they never take the initiative to say to people around them: Hello, can we talk? ...

Love: Flowers must be folded before they can be folded.

Love is unexpected, but you can't expect it ... The more lonely you are, the more you should be wary of love ... Since being single is shameful, should Ximen Qing be rated as one of the top ten outstanding young people in the Song Dynasty ... Flowers can be folded, so don't let a man with 10,000 yuan spend 100 yuan for you, and you only take his/. And a man with only ten dollars spent ten dollars for you, and you became his whole life. ...

X. Sex: God dies.

Love should be said, love should be done ... only when my body hits me can I feel happy. After that, I will be more lonely and empty ... Why should other people's vanity hurt me ... When she lay on the bed with her legs crossed mechanically, her parents were looking forward to her daughter's future ... I don't know. ...

Eleven, one's deceased father grind: painful euthanasia

There is nothing worse than wasting youth ... the enrollment expansion rate of graduate students is 30%, which means that the depreciation rate of master students is 30% ... and it is also three years of hard work. You can increase the value of E 1 by 1, or increase the value of E2 by 2 or even 3 ... After finishing your master's or doctor's degree, it doesn't mean that you are more capable ... facing 13.

Twelve, studying abroad: "turtle" becomes "kelp"

The job with a monthly salary of 2,500 yuan has attracted three "returnees" to compete for employment ... For some majors, studying in the United States is no different from studying in Ethiopia ... Since companies all over the world want to share cakes in the China market, why do China people want to study abroad and then work for foreigners? ...

XIII. OAU: It is better to raise humble people.

She has set many records in China's information industry. She is known as the "working queen" of China. And she is just a self-taught college student ... If you want to win back what you have lost, you must make up for it with less efforts than others ... Non-unified recruitment requires not only certain strength, but also certain skills to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses ... The road is at your feet. Okay, okay. ...

Fourteen, graduation: the trap of flying daggers

Your alma mater doesn't treat yourself as a mother, so why should you treat yourself as a child ... Listening to remedial classes means spending money to buy sureness ... The talent market is a minefield ... There is nothing wrong with applying for a job in various ways, but don't go hungry ... As long as your employer says you want to pay, you turn around and leave ... It's not enough to make a word these days, let alone make a verbal agreement. ...

Fifteen, job hunting: don't be too kind.

Your resume must highlight your core competitiveness ... When you apply for a job, you don't have to "say one thing" like Yan Shouyi ... It's not difficult for a person to tell a lie, but it's difficult to tell it to the end without revealing flaws ... When filling out your major, you must be as detailed as possible ... A resume of a job is enough to make a form with a piece of A4 paper ... The interview is actually regular, and you only need to recite the standard answers for each interview.

Sixteen, riding a donkey can find a swift horse.

The standard distance between two tracks of American railway is 4 feet 8.5 inches. Why? Because the width between the hips of two horses is 4 feet 8.5 inches ... garbage is a misplaced talent ... The biggest tragedy in the world is that too many young people have never found out what they really want to do ... Small and medium-sized enterprises may give you more exercise ... Starting from the grassroots does not mean that you can start from every position at the grassroots level ... You have to "make money" and have a future. ...

Office politics: a compulsory course for white-collar workers

Big companies are people, small companies are things ... Whether employees can be promoted depends largely on whether they work hard or not, but on how much the boss appreciates you ... The company's affairs and secrets are always more complicated and profound than you think ... It is not only necessary but also wise to play dumb at the right time ... Just treat your colleagues as a group of strangers whose names you can name. ...

Eighteen, entrepreneurship: be a rich man before the age of 29.

A thin camel is bigger than a horse ... A brave and timid person is no longer a "big fish eat small fish", but a "quick fish eats slow fish" ... Grasping the trend is the most important ability of an entrepreneur ... The space left for high-tech graduates is already very small ... haste makes waste. It is very necessary to work for others to accumulate experience before starting a business ... the market is always more important than the product ... what if the money is not enough? First, look at the dishes and eat; Second, borrow chickens to lay eggs. ...

There is also a university life plan to enter the university from high school, and the joy is self-evident. But it didn't take long for some students to have questions: why do you have to arrange your own after-school time? If only there were teachers in the university to take care of them like high school!

Students who have the above ideas may be individual. But it reflects a problem worthy of attention and deep thought, that is, how to spend your college life better?

Some students are used to high school life, and classes, homework, exams and activities are arranged by teachers or class teachers. At first glance, it is really uncomfortable to leave such an environment. How about this kind of management in high school? No comments here for the time being. As far as students are concerned, it is urgent to change their ideas and adapt to college life as soon as possible.

University, like high school, is a kind of school, but it is a special school. It is a temple of higher education and a place for learning. It requires students to actively learn knowledge, delve into knowledge, and then cultivate students' ability to analyze and solve problems. In college, it is of course the teacher who guides and teaches, which is very important. But as far as students' learning progress is concerned, they mainly rely on themselves to explore, learn and struggle. There is an old saying in China: "The master leads the door, and the practice is in the individual." That's what it means.

The German philosopher Jaspers also clearly emphasized this point when talking about the concept of university. He said: "Universities should always run through the idea that college students should be independent and master their own destiny. They attend classes selectively and listen to different opinions, facts and suggestions, so as to make their own tests and decisions in the future. Real college students can set their own learning goals on their own initiative, be good at using their brains and know what their work consciousness is ... This is a spiritual sublimation, and everyone can feel that they are called the greatest people. "

From this perspective, the university is a brand-new environment. College students who step into this environment should establish a brand-new consciousness: to be independent and plan their own college life. We can no longer rely on the environment of "someone is in charge of everything" and must change "someone is in charge" into "self-management".

"Self-management" is embodied in all aspects: physical health care, self-care and social communication ... This is the most basic aspect, but more importantly, academic study. There are different majors and specialties, and each student has his own specialties. What should I learn while learning this major well? What aspects of your knowledge need to be supplemented and improved? These all need to use your head, make plans and see how you do it. In this regard, the experience of the older generation of scholars is worth learning. A scientist with great achievements in science and technology in our country recalled university life and said that in university, we must learn basic knowledge well, but at the same time, we should take other courses according to our own situation and absorb knowledge extensively. Moreover, this kind of absorption is very critical and thoughtful, so it has benefited a lot. This is an experience and a useful inspiration. Students may wish to learn from it.

College life usually takes three or four years, but it's gone in a blink of an eye and passed quickly. Therefore, it is very urgent and necessary to plan your college life effectively. College students should seize the time, make plans early, strive to learn more knowledge and grow more talents in a limited time, and make greater contributions to the modernization of the motherland after graduation.

Steps of college life planning 1. Be familiar with the environment and adapt to college life. Pay special attention to the psychological adjustment of freshmen. Psychological quality is the key to success. Many freshmen are unable to adapt to the new environment, have poor interpersonal skills, have excessive inferiority complex and lack self-confidence because of insufficient psychological preparation or psychological problems in high school. How can we get everyone to adapt to the new environment as soon as possible and get out of confusion and confusion? We believe that in addition to making full preparations for study, we should also put a correct attitude, conduct self-evaluation and correct positioning, strive to cultivate self-reliance and self-care ability, and learn to grasp ourselves.

2. Determine long-term and short-term goals according to the law of university life, and formulate action plans and contents. Freshman should pay attention to the understanding of the university and the vision of the future career, sophomore should pay attention to the cultivation of basic ability, junior should pay attention to career orientation, and senior should pay attention to career choice or postgraduate entrance examination. Of course, learning is always the most important.

3. Choose methods and means according to the action plan. People vary according to their long-term goals, but generally they have to go through four periods: adaptation period, determination period, sprint period and graduation period. You should know your major as early as possible in the first grade, especially the career you want to pursue in the future or your major, so as to improve your interpersonal skills. The second grade is a definite period, so we should consider whether to pursue further studies or get employment in the future, focus on improving our basic quality, actively participate in organizations such as student unions or societies, start to try part-time and social practice activities, and selectively minor in other majors to enrich ourselves. The third grade is a sprint period, approaching graduation, and the goal should be to choose a job or take the postgraduate entrance examination. Participate in summer jobs related to majors, exchange job hunting experience with classmates, learn to write resumes and cover letters, understand the channels for collecting work information, and actively try. Students who wish to study abroad can pay attention to the information of the examination for studying abroad. The fourth grade is the graduation period, and the goal of most students should be to choose a career. At this time, you can make a summary of the preparations for the first three years, and try to practice when you are fully prepared.

Matters needing attention in college life planning In order not to affect the planning effect, college students should pay special attention to the following issues when planning college life:

1. Don't equate career planning with college life planning. Career planning is an important part of college life planning, but it cannot replace college life planning.

2. Don't be eager for quick success. The goal should be based on your own wishes. You should not rush to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination or find a job. You should pay attention to improving your comprehensive quality, ability to adapt to society and communication skills.

3. Be fully prepared. College students are often unprepared in time, strength and experience. Therefore, we should pay attention to the study of cultural knowledge and the mastery of learning methods, strengthen the understanding of society, the collection of information, the improvement of ability, the accumulation of experience, and the cultivation of team spirit, cooperation consciousness and interpersonal skills.

I hope you can find the answer you want from the above.