You may not know the reason why a relationship comes to an end is that the shortcomings of the other party are gradually exposed in the process of getting along, and the contradictions between the two people are also one after another: constant small friction, quarrel, perfunctory, impatience, all want to ask more of the other party, but they are unwilling to hide their shortcomings, and gradually they are not like at the beginning, and the last party decides to break up before waking up from a dream and recovering.
We generally believe that if we show sadness and pain in the process of recovery, then the other party will pity and sympathize with themselves, and then they will come to their senses and get back together. Let me tell you something. It's impossible. The other party will only think that you are worthless, which is a manifestation of low value. Breaking up is breaking up. That's what happened. What you have to do is not to run away from this fact, but to face it and her. Only when you are no longer weak will the other person change his mind again. Therefore, we should keep an optimistic attitude in the process of recovery. When you face her with a positive mood, I believe that the other person can clearly feel it. This feeling is the most intuitive and the best way to let the other person see that you have changed. From now on, keep an optimistic attitude, save yourself if you want to save each other, and don't lose yourself because of love. This is a very sad thing.
Optimism is not enough. You need to change yourself. You need to change yourself from the inside out according to the reasons for breaking up. Such as image, appearance, dress and so on. You also need to read more books to improve your knowledge, at work, in life and in communication skills with friends. In short, you should improve yourself. Say goodbye to the past and welcome new students.
If I really exist, it's because you need me.
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