Our family is like this. When I go home, my mother always helps me do this and that. In my opinion, if my mother cares about all this, and I, myself, sometimes hide the clothes that I want to wash but I am too lazy to wash now, wash them when I can, and wash the dishes after dinner. Because they are all college students and adults, they are embarrassed to be lazy. In addition, laziness will become a habit, so I will never let my mother help me do too many things, lest I become lazy. But, to be honest, if a family cares too much about its own gains and losses, then what a family does is boring. What a family should consider is what they can do for each other.

From a rational point of view, of course not, and I don't owe him, but if mom doesn't care, it's nothing.