With the expectation from childhood, I entered my dream college life. New faces, new environments and new ways of learning are all curious and satisfying. Stranger classmates get familiar with each other, and roommates talk about everything. The unique way of learning is also unprecedented "easy", but the price of this "easy" is not ideal. Looking at roommates who are as relaxed as usual, there is always a feeling of "having a companion", but the uneven grades are not as what they actually see, and it is not difficult to detect that they are "secretly learning"-involution.
After a period of college life, I realized that the phenomenon of involution was serious, and I was at a loss when I noticed it. I am not envious of others' achievements, but afraid of their "relaxation". There has always been a voice in my heart: "It is clear that they are also playing. Even if they can find time to study, the gap will not be so big." Ask your roommate jokingly, "Are you secretly studying? This can't be done. Be sure to bring me next time. " My roommate nodded awkwardly, but every time I picked up my cell phone or turned on my computer, my roommate came to ask me if I was studying as scheduled and just shook my head casually. I can't bear the consequences of "relaxation", but I blame others for "involution". Every time I think about it, I can only laugh at myself for not having this determination.
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Now the phenomenon of involution among college students is becoming more and more serious. When you go to the teaching building, you can see someone studying in the corridor. This learning atmosphere is undoubtedly a good phenomenon, which can increase the sense of competition and grow together in the competition. Compared with myself, I passed by the teaching building and others were studying. This feeling of polarization makes me feel entangled, whether to join or stay in place. In fact, making a specific plan that suits you and dealing with this phenomenon does not require too much evaluation and care for others, and it increases unnecessary anxiety, which is not conducive to physical and mental health. "involution" is a way of learning, with laziness on the surface and hard work behind it. If you resist this phenomenon because of the achievements made by others, it can only show your own villain's heart. It is not known whether others have a gentleman's belly, but you must admit that they are not necessarily better than themselves, but they must work hard.
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Learn step by step. See others "involution", good grades, blindly follow. If you study in a hurry, you will never feel relaxed or even disgusted. But if you control the pace of learning in your own hands, you won't be led by the nose, and you don't need to care whether others are "involuted". Others have their own learning methods and their own learning progress. I will feel a little bit when I see others studying hard. When you compare yourself with others in your mind, you must think that you are also working hard and have no guilt, instead of doing nothing in your studies. The former will be more and more proud of themselves and really willing to learn, because you have gained a sense of accomplishment in your study. The latter's negativity directly aggravated his guilt, became self-loathing, and gradually became confused. "involution" will not disappear, but I can change myself and abandon the idea that I just want to be "relaxed" Others are "involution" and I am also studying. How can I worry that others have better grades than me?
Efforts will make you add a beautiful filter to the world, and what you see will naturally become satisfactory.