I have lived in school since junior high school. I felt good in those years. At that time, I was still very disciplined. I can save ten yuan in pocket money a week, and I have a good relationship with my classmates. I don't have to worry about my grades.

I really feel that I am freer than other students and my life is very interesting. However, the more I grow up, the more I feel that something is wrong. Many friends around me who don't live in school have a good relationship with their parents, and they can have adults to help them with their ideas, especially their feelings.

Look at yourself again. If something goes wrong, you may not tell your parents.

I think it's a pity. I digested everything at school and shared it with my friends. Why would I be interested in telling my family?

The only warmth when I go home on weekends may be that my father drove to pick me up early and went out to have a good meal, and my mother helped me wash some clothes and sheets. Go exploring together? Daily communication? Very few.

I will definitely travel when I grow up, and I don't care about cultivating independence in these three years.

And these three years are exactly three years when a person needs "home" and a sense of security. Sharing weal and woe with mom and dad and learning some mature experiences are the happiness of childhood and great happiness.

Insecure independence is not good at all.