Parents are the first teachers of the children. Although parents don't play a vital role in children's acquisition of knowledge, they don't have to play a small role in the process of establishing personality and shaping soul. The champion of the college entrance examination left home for more than ten years because he failed in the final exam. In fact, most of this behavior of avoiding difficulties and self-contempt because of vanity comes from the influence of his parents. Although we can't force parents to give their children particularly good economic conditions, parents will always have an unshirkable responsibility in guiding values and shaping personality.
Parents love their children and can give up many things for their children. Of course, it also includes correct values and personality. Because many parents think that as long as their children can live well in the future, because of their own knowledge and cultural level, concepts and other reasons. In order to make children live well, they will succumb to many existing systems, such as the high score system in education.
Parents affect children, and the education system affects parents. Therefore, the root cause is the system and social atmosphere.