Junior boys brought their girlfriends home during the summer vacation, and their parents advised them to break up.
A junior boy and his girlfriend, 2 1 1, have been in love since their freshman year, but because of the epidemic, the boy has never brought the girl home to meet her parents.
After the summer vacation, junior boys immediately went to the senior year for internship. Recalling the stable relationship in the past three years, they plan to get married after graduation. However, before you get married, you still need to take your partner home and let your parents help you.
Boys and girlfriends plan to go to the boys' home to meet their parents, then play for a few days, and then go to the girls' home to meet their parents. At the end of the holiday, the two will return to campus together.
When the parents of boys see their children quietly bring back a girlfriend from 2 1 1 college, they are also very happy for their children. Moreover, girls get good grades in school and get scholarships every year, which makes the parents of boys feel extremely satisfied. They think they are a match made in heaven, and they can develop well even if they go out to work in the future.
After dinner, the boy's mother suggested that the boy send the girl to the hotel to rest, but the boy refused. That night, boys and girls were in the same room, which made parents feel unacceptable. On the one hand, because my son didn't listen to his parents, he didn't send the girls to the hotel to rest. On the other hand, it is too casual for a girl to share a room with her son.
Regardless of girls, parents of boys also suggest that girls go home early to accompany their parents. When the son asked his parents what they thought of girls, the parents directly expressed their enthusiasm that they were not suitable for being together on the first day and advised his son to break up as soon as possible.
Comments from netizens
After seeing the practice of parents of boys, some netizens expressed their views with the stories of their sons and girlfriends, thinking that they were all students. Although they may not be able to stop anything when they are not at home, they will at least educate their sons to know how to protect girls.
Some netizens also said that when a girlfriend comes to live at home, she should not be allowed to stay in a hotel, but should arrange a comfortable room at home. As we all know, relatives and friends come from afar, and the host family will arrange a comfortable place for them at home as much as possible to provide each other with the best rest environment and eating environment. Although the outside hotel decoration environment is no matter how good, but where can it compare with the warmth of home?
If there are not enough rooms at home, girls can be arranged to live in boys' rooms, and then boys can rest on the sofa or elsewhere. As long as parents can properly handle the accommodation problem, it will also make girls look up and feel the warmth from their boyfriends' home.
Some netizens said that you should take care of your son, not his daughter. Parents worry about two young people together, which is nothing more than worrying about their intimate behavior and even early pregnancy. If parents can educate their children to pay attention to protecting girls from the beginning and don't do anything against their wishes, it will be difficult to get pregnant before marriage in the future.
Pregnancy before marriage is not only a girl's business, but also a two-person business. Parents can't control their love life, but they can also teach their children to protect themselves and each other as much as possible within their abilities.
Only when parents manage their children as well as possible can they help others' children from the side. Although they are the parents of the boy, it is difficult for the parents of the boy to tell the girl what to do if they are not married. Therefore, it is the first thing for parents to manage their children and help them realize the correct way of doing things.
abstract
Junior boys bring their girlfriends home to meet their parents in summer vacation. On the first day, my parents greeted each other with smiles, but at night, they were offended by the accommodation problem. The next day, they chose to advise the girls to go home as soon as possible and let their sons break up with them. In view of this situation, parents should reflect on why they and their children didn't pay attention to the prevention of men and women, why they didn't let girls go reasonably, why they didn't warn boys not to share rooms with girls, and so on.
Only by educating their children well can parents better protect other children from the wind and rain. Many parents are worried about their children's emotional problems. Some children taste the sweetness of feelings for the first time, but they don't know how to protect themselves. Therefore, parents should tell their children to learn to protect themselves and each other in a reasonable way, and take each other home to be evaluated by their parents when the situation permits.