Relatives asked about the exam. I said I didn't do well in the exam and failed. People say hey! If you still can't pass the exam, what kind of school do you want to enter? You said you did well in the exam, and your relatives should say that your children don't study well at ordinary times, and the school you took is not so good! Everything is wrong, because there are no college students in their family.
Everyone wants their children to go to college, but how can it be so easy to get into college? As we all know, there are many people in Henan and few good schools. There is only one in Zhengzhou University (2 1 1), and the score is very high. It's really not easy to get into the 985+0438+0 university in Henan. Being admitted to the undergraduate course is a smoke in the ancestral grave, let alone a key university.
Admitted to the university, of course, I am very excited, but I am happy. Who knows what will happen to my children in the future? The future is unknown. Deliberately high-profile celebration will make children proud. Many children think that everything will be fine when they go to college, and they start to lie flat, do not make progress, and many fail to pass the exam.
My son's roommate is from Shanxi. Before school started last year, he said in the group that the school would play games with my son. As a result, I began to lie flat in my freshman year, mainly playing games. I failed two subjects, and the teacher has contacted my parents. My son is fine. He thinks it is not easy for him to enter the university. After passing CET-4, the academic performance ranges from over 40 to over 20. As long as he makes progress, it is a good thing.
In the past two years, there have been more mobile phones and school banquets! People admitted to famous universities such as Peking University and Tsinghua hosted a school banquet, and the comment area was filled with cheers and support. Diploma mill, admitted to a private school, and held a school banquet, so the comment area is different and can't be compared! This is a personal feeling, just do it if you want, just be happy!
The reason why I don't do it is simple. After I sent a short video on 202 1, some relatives will give a blessing when they see it. Some relatives will directly say: it's all your family's business (my husband, brother and sister are admitted to college), and some say that you have lost face this time! Some relatives browse repeatedly, but they don't comment and interact, pretending not to know! Suddenly, people who envy and hate are exposed. Strangers passing by also praised them. Relatives pretended not to see it and asked others to celebrate. Aren't you looking for trouble?
In our place, many people think that except Peking University and Tsinghua are good schools, others are not. If you don't make it to Beiqing's party, you will be laughed at. Besides, most people nowadays are indifferent and selfish, and their relatives are jealous, so if you don't hold a banquet, even those who don't accept gifts will be hated by their relatives. Why?
Finally, I want to say: it is good for children to go to college, but there is nothing to show off. After they are admitted to the university, there will be more ways out. If they can't get into college, they won't starve to death. As long as people work hard, all roads can be beautiful and peaceful!