I think there is a big gap between high school and now. I was more impulsive in high school and more impulsive in junior high school, perhaps because we were young and ignorant at that time! What friends say is more important than anything else. If your parents say it, they don't like it that much, but when you get to college, you will gradually understand what your parents say. What parents say is all true. In the future, you will gradually understand your parents and their sufferings.
People who have never been to college are really eager to go to college. Take my cousin for example. He dropped out of school in the second day of junior high school and has been helping in the shop at home. He used to hate studying very much. Now he sees others going to college and thinks it's better to stay at school. Now his job is getting more and more difficult. He thinks that if he goes to school, he may not work so hard, because only in this way can people who don't go to school succeed. To maintain the future life!
Think about it, there is no such thing as a free lunch. If you haven't been to college, what can you do to compete with others for jobs? Students in famous universities have high IQ and EQ. Do you think the boss will take you or him? Without a degree, you can't get in if you want. People now require a bachelor degree or above. If you don't have a bachelor's degree, you won't even have a chance to register, let alone go for an interview!
I think people who have gone to college will have many friends. You're like people who didn't go to college. They are at home, near some old friends. When you go to college, you will have many friends from all over the world. If you think you have friends in many places, it will be convenient for you to do things in many places, won't it? Just as you stay at home every day and don't know what it's like outside, and your friends have such narrow views, so will you.
I have lost contact with my classmates in junior high school and primary school, and many girlfriends in junior high school and vocational high school have also lost contact. Life is really different, and the topics discussed are not at the same level. The new friends you met in college will improve you. After all, you will know more and more when you come to other places, and your thinking will be improved after you leave your parents.
So wake up and don't feel bad about going to college. In fact, there are many benefits that you don't understand. For finding a job, some college students may find it particularly difficult to find a job now. If you don't go to college, it will be even more difficult, because people's current platform foundation is college graduates, and your platform foundation is high school students and junior high school students. It will be a great disadvantage for you to find a job afterwards. Even if you are talented, people may not want you. So people who are still at school should work hard, or you will have a hard time in the future, and you will regret it then. Don't leave regrets for your life, work hard now! Believe in yourself!