Psychological articles
1. Adapt to the environment as soon as possible
When you first enter the university campus, you will always feel confused for a while. Compared with your previous study life, the time you can use in college will become much more special, but sometimes due to the arrangement of courses, the time you can use will become very broken. It will make people feel as if they have a lot of free time every day, but they have not done anything meaningful.
So the solution to this puzzle is to make a good plan and make good use of these fragmented time, especially for freshmen. It is a good choice to recite English words or read some books to enrich yourself.
Get out of your comfort zone
University is undoubtedly a place with the lowest cost of trial and error, so we should be brave enough to try unknown areas and do things we have never done before. At first, everyone will experience confusion and do nothing in action, but seeing many excellent students make steady progress will make them psychologically miserable. At this time, we just lack clear and definite goals.
Don't indulge
If at first you feel that you are not interested in anything and don't know what you want to do, then get out of your comfort zone, try more and learn more. Only in this way can you find the way you really want to go.
College life can be relatively easy, but it is by no means indulgence that makes it possible.
We always heard this sentence in high school: it's easy to go to college. In my life, this relaxation depends more on your own subjective consciousness. Doing nothing and thinking nothing every day is a kind of relaxation. Having a plan and a goal, making progress every day, without worry, is also a kind of relaxation.
4. Always have your own judgment and standards.
After entering the university campus, you will encounter all kinds of things. I believe you have always heard that universities are the epitome of society. This requires you to have your own standards and your own judgment.
Everything has a bottom line, but also know how to refuse. Only in this way can future negotiations and communication become easier and more efficient. Otherwise, receiving it again will only make you exhausted.
5. Learn to think, not afraid of "loneliness"
Understand in advance that "loneliness is the normal state of life." Have the courage to be "lonely" and be yourself. On campus, everyone has their own ideas and things to do, which is different from junior high school. At that time, everyone may only have one goal, that is, study hard and get into a good university as much as possible.
However, when this goal is achieved, everyone is an independent individual on the university campus and begins to plan their own future. Everyone is scrambling to move forward, and it is inevitable that sometimes they will feel "lonely".
The greatest advantage of loneliness is that you have absolutely independent thinking space. Although no one is talking and chatting, your brain is thinking all the time, thinking about trivial things, difficult things, things that can come up with answers, and things that never have answers. After sorting out all the possibilities you can imagine, you will find that all the things you are confused about can become clear bit by bit. It also makes you more calm and calm in the face of any unexpected events.
6. Always remember "prudence and independence"
University is also a relatively high degree of freedom environment, in such an environment where no one gives you tasks and no one asks you to do anything. Only by remembering the word "cautious independence" at all times can we better restrain ourselves. We should also learn to be flat.
Weighing the proportion of "prudence" and "independence" in life, no matter which one is ignored, the final result will be different.
Practice the article
1. Don't add meaningless societies and organizations.
At the beginning of the new school year, there will always be updates of clubs and organizations. Before choosing a club and organization, you should go through your own deliberation: Do I like this club? Do I like this activity? Can I learn anything from this organization? Can I wait? Am I willing to pay? Wait until you think deeply about these problems before deciding whether to join this club or organization.
Because if you start to join just because of novelty, the novelty will disappear after a while. In the end, you will not only waste your time on useless things, but also slowly consume your enthusiasm. Let these things become a drag, rather than end like this, it is better to spend more time thinking about whether it is worth it.
2. Learn early.
Study early, don't wait until the exam is coming before you start cramming. Don't believe the so-called theory of "don't repeat a grade, don't go to college" and "don't skip classes, don't go to college". Always remind yourself that people who are better than you work harder than you. Learn as much professional knowledge as possible, read more books and broaden your horizons. University is an open platform, where you can meet many different but equally excellent people. Don't forget your original intention, and don't be easily disturbed by people or things in Zhou.
3. Don't make money just to make money.
Many people in universities want to supplement their daily expenses by taking part-time jobs. But if you just make money for the sake of making money, it's all wet! Four years in college is precious, and of course, you should spend your precious time on things that can get more benefits.