Everyone will meet real friends when they are students. Friends treat each other with sincerity, and always feel that they are not relatives but better than relatives. But no matter how close the relationship is at this stage, after a few years of graduation, everyone's contact will be less and less until one day they disappear into each other's lives.
Every step on the road of human growth, the circle of life will undergo tremendous changes.
When I was in college, I had a very good relationship with my roommate. We often eat and drink together, surf the Internet all night, skip classes and go out to play together, and enjoy our wanton youth together. Although there is no blood relationship, I think this is a brother.
But when I stepped into the society, my life circle changed greatly and my life became more and more busy. People around me have changed from roommates who have no interests to colleagues who have competitive relationships. In the circle of life, former roommates have been gradually replaced by new friends.
Busy work and life, I don't have much time to contact my former friends, so we gradually disappear into each other's lives.
When life comes to a fork in the road, even the best relationship will fade in time.
I returned to my hometown after graduating from college, and my good friends at that time also returned to their respective homes. After returning to China, in addition to my colleagues, I continued my previous relationship with my high school classmates.
In this small circle, I have been trying to improve my sense of existence. Once a college classmate, he slowly lost contact in time. I used to make an occasional phone call, and it has been 10 years since I graduated. It will be embarrassing to send voice messages continuously.
I think life is like a straight line, countless straight lines intersect in the void, but after that focus, everyone still walks alone in life.
The friendship in the campus era is pure, but this friendship will eventually become a touch of sunshine in our memory, slightly warm, but it will eventually be replaced by the night.
Cherish the friends around you, maybe one day in the future, they will disappear in your memory.