According to the victim, Ms. Zhang, Zhang first communicated with her through the recruitment platform and said that she would introduce her work. Since then, Ms. Zhang has had a good impression on Zhang and confirmed her love relationship. Zhang said that she has friends abroad, and only needs Ms. Zhang to pay the postage, she can get a set of high-end cosmetics for free. Ms. Zhang was moved and transferred hundreds of yuan one after another. However, she never received cosmetics. Zhang explained that the cosmetics were detained after passing through the customs, and Ms. Zhang noticed that something was wrong and called the police.
Zhang's deception routine is not very clever. More than 50 women who suffered before were defrauded of more than 40,000 yuan. Most people think that they had sex with Zhang. Because of privacy and shame, they didn't call the police, giving Zhang a chance to continue cheating.
In fact, in cases involving emotions and crimes, many female victims have similar choices and keep their mouths shut. Obviously, they are victims and should stand up angrily to defend their rights and give color to criminals, but why are they so ashamed?
On the one hand, they feel ashamed if they call the police? Privacy? I can't hide it any more. The disclosure of this little secret will put me under great public pressure. People don't necessarily sympathize with the victims and blame the criminals. In Lu Xun's work Blessing, Sister Xianglin was sold by her mother-in-law to another man as her wife. People praised her mother-in-law for doing a good job in business, but treated Sister Xianglin, who had been married twice, coldly and cynically.
In reality, when similar cases of indecency and sexual assault occur, there will always be people pointing fingers at the victimized women, maliciously speculating on their behavior style and dress, and even affecting their future friendship and love. Such harsh eyes will accompany the victim for a long time. In addition, for many victims, remembering the process of being hurt again is another kind of pain, which may be unbearable for their fragile hearts, so I simply don't say it. Others are ashamed to say that they have been cheated because they are afraid of being questioned about their intelligence and life experience.
In many cases, the victim will hide the deception for various reasons. Concealing the victim's situation is mostly due to the following main reasons:
First, I am afraid that many college students will be arrested by some people online. Campus loan? When they are cheated away by fraudulent projects, they still dare not report to the police, for fear of being blamed by their families, and may eventually prefer to commit suicide rather than tell their families.
Second, I still don't know the real situation, and I still don't believe that I have been cheated. Even if some victims are cheated, they still choose paralysis because they can't accept the facts, so they will never call the police, such as those who became popular on the Internet before? Jin Dong video fraud aunt? Aunt won't believe being? Jin Dong? Cheated.
Third, I am also involved. Some businessmen will raise funds for their own companies, etc. At this time, they often dare not speak out when they meet swindlers. On the one hand, they are afraid that all their efforts will be wasted, on the other hand, they are worried that others will withdraw their funds when they see that they have been cheated.
The fourth kind is threatened by criminal suspects and afraid to call the police.
There is a saying in Interview with the Truth. It was the rapist who lost his virginity, not the victim? . As a victim, there is no need to blame yourself for being cheated or hurt. You know, even if a person does nothing, there will be accidents. As a victim, there is no need to bear the fault of the criminal suspect, but learn to speak out bravely. As the public, we can't be a keyboard man on the internet and criticize the victims from the perspective of God.