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When I typed this title, I obviously felt my hands shaking slightly and my heart ached.

All kinds of pictures in my mind. In Ziyi's article, you can't live without that terrible construction site, Luqiao people and his wife, and the house called "Widow House".

In fact, I can't say that I feel exactly the same way. Because, many things, I have never experienced personally, and I can never understand the feelings of the parties.

What we hear, see and know is often superficial. Who knows what difficulties and hardships are behind them? Therefore, understanding them is irresponsible.

It's not easy to be a woman, and it's even harder to be the wife of a road and bridge person.

Ziyi is also the wife of Luqiao people, but what she let me see and feel is a different wife of Luqiao people.

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I admire Ziyi for her courage.

I can't imagine how a weak female college student who just graduated can have sufficient reasons and beliefs to choose to live on the construction site. For the sake of love, I stayed away from my hometown, followed my husband, rushed to various project sites, and frankly accepted the wife status of Luqiao people.

Luqiao people's wife, you may leave your hometown to follow your beloved like her.

I also live in that simple prefabricated house with my lover, so I might as well live separately. In order to make a living, you get up early and get greedy every day, running around dusty and stormy construction sites. You should have no time and energy to take care of your youthful and beautiful face, right? Do men eat together after work and play cards all night, and let you spend a long night on the construction site alone? However, you just can't leave the site.

Women, sometimes for the sake of love, are so stubborn and determined that they just want to be with him all their lives. No scribble or bad environment can stop his determination to be with his lover.

Since you have chosen the love of the construction site and the marriage of Luqiao people, then find a way to manage it well! Don't be destroyed by the cruel reality, always try to make yourself happy. Even if there is no castle in the fairy tale, we should try our best to have a happy and beautiful love story like the prince and princess.

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I admire Ziyi's wisdom.

As an ordinary wife of Luqiao people, the noisy and chaotic environment in the construction site does not affect her to become a positive person. She cleared out a clean space of her own in the dormitory and created a pure land of her own mind with her writing. After working on the construction site, she insisted on writing, learning to operate the official WeChat account and playing with the media. Let the boring site become an opportunity for growth and a springboard for leap.

Luqiao people's wife, you may live in a boring construction site like her.

Do you live a life of "365 days a year, like only one day, repeating 364 times"? Are you also bound by that kind of "smoky poker field and drunken dinner", and you want to escape but have nowhere to escape? Have you ever thought that one day, you have saved enough money, completed important events in your life, and chose to escape?

If so, then take action.

Never forget to study and explore, find your own hobbies, devote yourself wholeheartedly and strive for perfection.

Make yourself different every day, stay away from the poker field and dinner that you hate from the bottom of your heart, no longer attach to anyone, attach to any lifestyle, and confidently live high.

You may think that the poor construction site environment is an obstacle to your progress or change, but please believe that when you have a clear learning direction and firm learning determination, no external factors can affect you.

As long as you want to change, nothing is a problem, and all the answers will be in your heart. Stick to it, and one day you will appreciate the life you have endured and suffered. They will be your motivation, not a stumbling block.

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I appreciate Ziyi's attitude.

Her attitude towards life makes every mediocre person feel ashamed. She doesn't pursue fame and gain, keep up with the joneses and show off. When it's time to follow love, I choose to live on the construction site without hesitation. When it's time to take care of the whole family, I retire and choose rural life without complaint. She perfectly interprets the extremely unpopular profession of "stay-at-home housewife".

Who said that "stay-at-home housewife" must be born around three meals a day, washing and cooking, and attaching to her husband? She can also have her own exquisite and leisurely lifestyle.

She has her own hobbies, her own freelance career and her own circle of friends. She can keep the family in order and ensure that she has enough income. You said she was bad? Why was she rejected?

Luqiao people's wife, you may be like her, raising children alone in your hometown.

You are experiencing a "widowed" marriage, living the life of a military wife, but you are not treated as a military wife. But don't be limited by these objective conditions.

Life is your own. You have no choice but to separate and live alone. You also want what live high wants and what others envy.

You have a family to take care of. You don't have to have a high-paying job from nine to five, but you must have your own way of life, know your own advantages and make the best use of them. And remember, don't spend all your time and energy on children, and don't put all your hopes on children.

Only you are your own hope, and when you come to live in high places, you will also be the hope of your children.

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The wives of Luqiao people, whether they are the workers themselves, the women behind the workers, or stay-at-home mothers with children, should be affirmed and worthy of respect.

You don't have fancy clothes or heavy make-up, but you are the most cherished woman for men.

Luqiao people's career is not easy, and the title of Luqiao people's wife is not easy.

Do you know how many ordinary, great, poor and rich people are walking on the roads and bridges built by your husband with a heart of gratitude and awe?

Do you know how many family reunions and happiness your husband's "abandonment of family and children" and "separation of flesh and blood" have brought? How many families have enjoyed the benefits of convenient roads and bridges? How many people are full of expectations for the roads and bridges that will be produced in the future?

Do you know that your husband on the construction site built a road of hope, a bridge of happiness? He is the cutest person! You should be proud of him! We are proud of him!

When I first chose to be the wife of Luqiao people, I must have good reasons and firm determination. Since you have chosen this direction and embarked on this road, you must always remember your initial heart!

You are lucky to have a mentor and role model like Ziyi, who cares about you, encourages you and guides you.

Luqiao people's wives, no matter what kind of life you are living now, remember to make yourself happy.

Guard your marriage happily, change yourself happily, and live high happily!