College counselors should not be appropriate. Generally speaking, they should be sociable before becoming counselors, especially when dealing with a group of college students. They are also teachers and friends and need to be handled well! College students are on vacation, counselors are basically on vacation, except for meetings and the like! Not much! School starts early, but college life is much richer than primary and secondary schools! Compared with openness, in addition, there are many "gray incomes" in primary and secondary schools, but not in universities, especially counselors! All right, you can test it yourself.