1, down to earth, don't always think about some crooked ways. Maybe it's because I grew up through the back door and looking for relationships at home. I think very seriously. But when I went to college and went to a different place, I couldn't put the human relationship in place, and then I hit a wall. In particular, I met some honest seniors and sisters, and then I followed them and found that I had better be down-to-earth if I worked hard. Moreover, what you strive for is more confident and emboldened, and you will feel more proud when you get it.

2. Culture is still very important, and reading is not useless. Before I went to college, although I was always good at reading, I always thought reading was of little use and was a supporter of the theory of reading uselessness. But when I went to college and entered another level, I suddenly found that reading was not useless, but that people who didn't study felt useless. Especially during my internship, I found that there are so many jobs that I will never get in touch with them unless I go to college. This also strengthened my determination to continue studying and treat my children's education well in the future.

3, do your own thing, rely on the sky, rely on people and rely on ancestors, not heroes. I am very dependent. Before high school, many things were solved by parents or friends, but after going to college, I found that everyone's life was not easy, and some things were better solved by themselves. It may also be that as you get older, you will gradually see that it is not easy for others, so you don't want to bother others.