1. If you are really isolated, there must be a reason. Generally speaking, you have offended a core figure in the group. For example, I was isolated, mainly by a core figure. He thought I left that day to embarrass her, so she mobilized the other two to isolate me. Later, she wrote a dear John letter. If you really want to make up, you must first break through this core figure. Most of the rest of the people are swing, er, that's what it means.

2. There is really no need to apologize, and there is no need to communicate actively. In any relationship, the party who takes the initiative to speak often tends to occupy a weak position and is reasonable and unreasonable. You're gonna be okay. The more waves, the better. Not only the waves, but also the waves to let them know that you are surfing. If there is no conditional wave, it is necessary to create conditional wave. In short, the point is to let them know! One of these five or six people can't help talking to you first.

After all, what they expect is that you cry, and Lacrimosa kowtows and apologizes and makes peace. If you don't beg for mercy according to their expectations, will their hearts itch unbearable?

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Don't take them too seriously In fact, some people are just ordinary friends. When they are bored, they can kill time together. Good friends are hard to find and will not isolate you for no reason. I thought about it when my three friends isolated me. If they really broke up with me, then I accepted it frankly. If I made new friends, why should I hang myself on them? It's not that I don't value friendship. It's not that I don't value friendship. It's not that I don't value friendship because I didn't position them as close friends from the beginning, and neither did they. So in this case, I can play a little trick and force them to speak first.