The heart for you.

Just once, then.

I also want to accompany you to the old man forever.

Is it still with you?

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Everyone yearns for a beautiful marriage and a happy life, but there are always inappropriate people in your life and then turn around and leave.

Some people have lost the ability to love, some people have achieved a better self and met the right person.

This is not chicken soup, but a fact.

Writer Yang Xiwen said in the article "Love a positive person":

After breaking up, my life is not good, obesity, poverty, lack of love, no achievement, all the things that make a woman unhappy, all come one after another in my life.

At night, I often wake up with dreams, wet my face with tears and chew every word he says.

I am burdened with the sequela of a negative love, which makes me feel more inferior.

Yi Shu said: "In any case, it is always unforgivable for a person to fall under an excuse. The more unloved you are, the more you should love yourself. " .

That swirling love was gradually released because of the story of a brave girlfriend.

Women don't live because of love, let alone because of who they meet. They can't drag themselves down because of a wrong love, so as to prevent themselves from sticking to their posts and draining their smart selves.

If it doesn't fit, let go decisively, take your time, and never forget that you still have the right to choose love.

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Never forget: the measure of happiness is all in your hands. When you meet it, catch it.

Her baby was born this year.

The cheerful and free-spirited girl in college came back to my mind.

S had found a good job before graduating from college.

During her internship, she was recommended by her colleagues to be a headhunting assistant in a consulting company, with high salary, good atmosphere and great room for growth.

Miss S chatted with me and talked about the next plan: to leave my current company and work as a recruitment manager in another company, one for my family; The second is career planning.

Talking about marriage, she said, "You will never believe how I met my present husband."

My first reaction is that I always have too many obstacles in my life: what she usually comes into contact with at work.

"He was recognized by me on the dating website ... At first, friends and family felt unreliable, carefully checked and measured the details, and decided to communicate after careful confirmation. Although there are many contradictions after marriage, it is harmless, and now we are very happy. "

After listening to her words, I didn't follow up.

It's not that I don't ask, it's because I think she is capable of happiness.

Sometimes the way to know each other is just one way. If you meet it, cherish it.

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Sometimes the wrong persistence will hurt each other.

K's girlfriend comes to see him at school regularly every year, stays for a week, and then goes back to her hometown to open her own shop.

K and his girlfriend are high school classmates.

In the college entrance examination, K unexpectedly dropped out of the list, and the family felt nothing. If they are unwilling to lower their school selection criteria, they will try to repeat their studies for one year.

From the summer vacation to the resumption of school, K did not find a breakthrough from his lost emotions. The figures on his report card tell K, "You can't".

K showdown with his family: I really don't want to repeat the same mistakes. I repeat, it's humiliating.

The family took turns to go into battle and ended up without results. His disheartened behavior greatly disappointed his family.

"Then let him choose," father said behind his mother's back.

It was at this time that his classmate Miss M saw him like this and encouraged him all the time.

Ms. M's encouragement made his psychological loss gradually find a breakthrough. She began to change the concept of "losing face after repeated reading", studied hard and was admitted to her favorite university a year later.

Miss M gave up her studies because her grades were not satisfactory. I went back to my hometown to study cakes with my sister and run a small shop together.

Sophomore, K brought M girl home, and the family agreed that two people were not suitable.

Girl m is smart, clever and has eyes. At K's insistence, her family slowly accepted M. In order to reassure M, K persuaded her family to get engaged to M in the second year of high school.

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As close classmates, we have always maintained the attitude of not evaluating in person, but we also have standards to measure in our hearts.

In the second year of graduation, K sent a message that she was getting married, and the bride was not M.

K's choice confirms our previous judgment: no one in this world has failed, and no one has been failed. The right to choose happiness is all in our own hands.

After graduation, when we returned to the provincial capital, we were still separated. There is a big difference between being carefree in school and working ... She likes to cling to me and needs a sense of security. There are more and more quarrels and fewer topics ... at first she didn't agree, but later because of my insistence, she agreed.

"What about your family?"

"My parents think I'm in a hurry. I did make a mistake, but it is not good for us to stick to it. "

I can't help but feel sorry for M, and I feel even more distressed about M. How did she and her family spend that period that might be criticized?

Perhaps countless nights, she also regrets, and it is good to cry through the night alone.

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Low-quality love is not as good as high-quality singles.

Some people persist for too long and then leave, whether they are helpless or disappointed. If they can't stay, there is really no need to stay. Maybe you really don't fit.

In the end, you will find that other people's opinions can't shake your inner choice at first.

There is a saying that "you will meet who you are".

The breadth and depth of life depend entirely on individual efforts.

If you are single, spend a lot of time honing yourself and become an interesting person;

If you have company, don't forget to expand yourself and improve yourself.

Even if you turn around one day, you will not be depressed and decadent because of temporary sadness.

Turning around may be another scene.