{Author: Liu Xiaoyang} ......

In this experiment, two people have completely different views on the same thing because of different external influences. According to the tutor's evaluation, two different directions are introduced and explained, but there is no practical basis and it is one-sided. I can't tell who is right and who is wrong here.

There are many such stories in our life, such as new classmates in class and new colleagues at work. The first impression these people give us is often easily misled by external information, and it is also easy to determine the first impression because of the labels posted by others, but the results are often different. I think only when you know, you have the right to speak and criticize, just like only the scenery you have experienced, you can describe it with others, otherwise one-sided evaluation will always be extreme.

For example, the person in the photo, after getting familiar with it, the so-called first impression will slowly change. Familiarity and strangeness are completely two kinds of feelings, but if you are misled from the beginning, you will take many detours, have differences and despise him. But over time, with more contact and understanding, we can distinguish innocent criminals from famous scholars. I'll believe that when I see it.

This phenomenon will be brought into future collective activities, and we should learn from it. First impressions are important, but they should be correct. When managing activities, it is necessary to make reasonable analysis, not to neglect new people and not to shock the world. Since you are a manager, you should have analytical ability and responsibility, actively guide new people to join the group, pay attention to the participants, find problems in time, and solve unnecessary differences among colleagues. It is the quality that a leader should have.

Beyond the mountain is the forest or the sea. You can only see it with your own eyes if you turn it over. Climb over it step by step, grope slowly, and don't listen to the people below describe its scenery.