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It's been five years since my girlfriend and I started dating in college. She broke up. What should I do?
Feelings are not easy, but you should cherish them. I think you should save her. When I suddenly faced my girlfriend's indifference, I was extremely anxious. I'm afraid that if I break up, the whole world won't turn. Often the more so, the less I can find the reason why my girlfriend wants to break up. Therefore, the author believes that the more this situation, the more out of control, otherwise not only live very tired, but also can not save their love.

Of course, calming down doesn't mean that boys don't take things seriously. There is a saying that you should be anxious but not chaotic, that is to say, you should take the breakup seriously, but don't be overly anxious. In this way, we can continue the content that the author will talk about below, "Do these three things well and easily save love".

1, self-reflection, Ceng Zi said: I save myself three times a day. Yes, you should also learn to reflect on yourself in love, especially when you notice that your girlfriend is going to break up. As the saying goes, cause and effect have a cause, and cause and effect have a result. Girlfriend breaking up is not indiscriminate or arbitrary. There must be some reason why they are unhappy in love. Therefore, self-reflection is very necessary. Take the right medicine and make your girlfriend fall in love with you again, and she won't leave naturally.

2, put an end to everything your girlfriend doesn't like. In fact, many times, when a girlfriend wants to break up, it means that this boy makes her unhappy. Then at this time, boys should stop doing things that their girlfriends don't like, otherwise it will only accelerate the breakup. I've seen colleagues give away their girlfriends alive for playing games. Of course, not only boys play games, but also boys have an affair with other members of the opposite sex, or stare at mobile phones all day, or fool around with friends who are inferior to pigs and dogs all day. In short, all this is to be avoided. Don't hit the gun.

3. Buy some gifts that my girlfriend likes. Many times, some things are simple, but we find them complicated. The same is true in love. When a girlfriend is unhappy, sometimes a simple gift can solve it. I once saw a netizen save his girlfriend who was going to break up by giving gifts. In fact, for nothing else, boys have this heart, and girls are naturally happy, because they know that their boyfriends have themselves in their hearts. Therefore, although the gift is simple, it is light and affectionate, and sometimes it is an excellent way to save love.