College students are only relative adults, not absolute. China's "General Principles of Civil Law" stipulates: "/kloc-citizens over 0/8 years old are adults." Countries have different age regulations for adults according to their citizens' physiological, intellectual development, habits and social requirements. For example, Austria and other countries are 2 1 year old, Japan is 20 years old, and France and Britain 18 years old. So we are legal adults in our country, but truly speaking, we are not completely independent, but relatively adults.
College students need to be responsible for their own actions, and puppy love may lead to a heavier burden of responsibility or even inability to take responsibility. It has been said that college students are only relative adults, not absolute adults. What is the standard of adulthood? We are talking about college love, and the other debater can't even say clearly what he should undertake as an adult. How can he better shoulder the responsibility in love?
The purpose of love is to get married, not to play. Falling in love with a playful attitude in college has undoubtedly affected the social environment and its own development. Take my friends as an example. What's the difference between yourself after love and before? If it's a boy, say I spend more money and study less. If it's a girl, say I spend more time dressing up and don't pay attention to my study. More seriously, the problem of abortion after sexual life and all kinds of emotional trauma, how can all this be avoided?
To sum up, the disadvantages of college students' love outweigh the advantages. Love is responsibility and sharing, and the economic base determines the superstructure. Love without material things is not love at all. If someone admits that the purpose of falling in love is to have fun, should his character be criticized and doubted?