2. independence. Because of the personality differences among young college students, everyone's communication may be different from others, which makes the communication activities of young students present colorful personality characteristics. This character makes young students show a kind of autonomy in interpersonal communication, whether they are active or withdrawn. First of all, this autonomy is active in interpersonal communication. They are communication partners who obey and influence each other, and they have a strong sense of mutual independence psychologically. Secondly, the interpersonal communication of young students is mostly caused by interest and willingness, so it is consistent with the individual's excitement. At the same time, the external binding force of this group in informal communication is not strong, and most social activities and even collective activities can be selected by individuals, with less coercion and passivity. All these determine that young college students have certain independence in communication.
3. openness. With the deepening of reform and opening up, the interpersonal communication of young students presents the characteristics of openness. First of all, young students have a strong sense of communication and generally do not refuse to communicate; Secondly, young students have a wide network of contacts. At school, regardless of class, grade, major, gender, etc. It will not become an obstacle to young students' interpersonal communication, and young students are also trying to expand their communication fields to outside school and even society; Thirdly, the multi-faceted and multi-faceted communication needs of young students correspond to their colorful communication methods. In recent years, the rise of various associations in colleges and universities illustrates this point. In a word, the openness of young students' interpersonal communication also reflects their all-round interpersonal communication.
4. purity. The social role of young students determines that their main task is to study, and there are no economic problems such as wages and salaries, thus eliminating a series of conflicts of interest brought about by economic relations. University is a period of active thinking and rich feelings. College students cherish friendship and regard it as an important pursuit goal. They are very romantic, their minds are full of dreams and love for life, and there are few utilitarian colors that use each other. All these reflect the purity of young students' interpersonal communication.
People close to time and space can communicate with each other easily. The closer time and space are, the higher the frequency of interpersonal communication is, which is more conducive to enhancing the affinity of interpersonal relationships. For example, after freshmen enter school, they are most exposed to classmates, especially those in the same dormitory, and it is also the easiest for them to establish their initial friendship.
Of course, this phenomenon often fails to stand the test, and generally becomes weaker and weaker as time goes by. 6. People who are similar or complementary can communicate with each other easily. There are many similarities between people, such as age, education, interests, hobbies, attitudes, beliefs and so on.
7. People with outstanding personality and ability are easy to be associated with. Personality refers to the psychological characteristics that people often and stably show in various psychological processes, including temperament and personality. Many psychologists have shown through a large number of surveys that those who respect, care and understand others, are enthusiastic, cheerful, helpful, stable, patient, sincere, generous, keen on group activities, conscientious and responsible in their work, and dare to sacrifice their own personality characteristics are likely to have a sense of admiration, respect and intimacy. On the contrary, selfish, hypocritical, lonely, indifferent, stubborn, vengeful, jealous and complacent people are not conducive to interpersonal communication.
8. The opposite sex is easy to communicate with. The attraction of opposites is based on three factors: first, the mutual affection between the two sexes; Second, complementary personalities; The third is to seek affirmation. Under the same conditions, people are more willing to be evaluated and affirmed by the opposite sex, which needs to be supplemented and satisfied by interacting with the opposite sex, especially with the opposite sex with similar personality.