First of all, I congratulate my parents on having a child with good academic performance. At the same time, we should also praise parents, who are open-minded in their children's education and can take the initiative to go online to seek answers when they encounter educational confusion. With this, there is every reason to expect this parent to cultivate an excellent child.
It can be seen from the online questioning that this parent has been hesitant to let a child with good academic performance have his own hobbies.
To find the answer to this question, we just need to ask ourselves what is the ultimate goal of raising and educating children. To understand this question, the answer is self-evident.
In fact, no matter whether children's academic performance is good or not, children should have their own hobbies. Children with good academic performance, in particular, should have their own positive interests and hobbies, so as to be more stable and grow better on the road of educational growth. Smart parents should not only have a good understanding of their children's thoughts, but also use practical actions to guide and cultivate their children's hobbies.
The children's world is not only learning from parents who really value their children's education, but also the senior high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination, but it will never only value the senior high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination.
They understand that the senior high school entrance examination and college entrance examination are only the process of education growth, and the ultimate goal of education is to empower children, let them have the ability to survive and develop in society, make them live happier, and better reflect the value of personal existence.
However, more than 40% of students in the senior high school entrance examination are diverted to vocational high schools or secondary vocational schools, less than half of them can be admitted to undergraduate courses in the college entrance examination, and less than 2% of high school graduates can be admitted to 985 universities. This cruel reality of entering a higher school makes most parents generally anxious about it.
In order to win the opportunity of education, they will not hesitate to borrow money to buy school districts, but also send their children to prestigious schools and enter the "cattle class"; On weekends, I don't hesitate to go to major off-campus training institutions and live a life of "sending" and "accompanying". As long as the children have good academic performance, no matter how hard and tired they are, parents will feel even worthwhile.
I admire such parents very much, but I have to say that while parents are willing to pay and dare to pay, they must not "score only" or "score only" and let their children become a learning machine. Don't say that children's student life must be rich and colorful, but you must never feel the poverty in the reading age.
Some parents pursue their children to study happily. In fact, learning is never a happy thing. It is precisely because of this that parents have a greater responsibility to inject happiness into their children's learning and education by adjusting and grasping the concepts, rhythms and methods of education, so that children can go into battle easily and improve their learning efficiency.
If children's world is only boring learning, only test scores and grades, the result will only kill children's learning enthusiasm and initiative. This is the core reason why many "tiger parents" choose strict management in their children's primary schools and their children get good grades. In junior high school and senior high school, grades slowly declined.
It is a hobby for lovers to treat children correctly, whether we are adults or underage children, and whether this hobby is bad or positive. As parents, we should treat our children's hobbies objectively and rationally.
Undoubtedly, bad hobbies will affect children's academic performance. Even students with excellent academic performance are easy to indulge in bad hobbies. Top student, a famous private middle school in front of her home, used to be a top high school girl. Because she learned to play games with a boy who was admitted to Cambridge University before the college entrance examination, her grades quickly declined. Fortunately, the female senior withdrew from the competition in time and finished the Tsinghua.
If a super university bully has a bad hobby, his grades will inevitably drop, not to mention those students with average academic performance.
Parents all know that from the perspective of self-discipline, the better the academic performance, the stronger the self-discipline. Just like the female top student mentioned earlier, playing online games has affected her grades, and she can get out decisively after finding problems. For those students with average academic performance, it is even more difficult to get lost, give up and catch up in their studies like her, and some children will even collapse and go with the flow.
As parents who care about their children's education and growth, the first task is to prevent their children from forming bad habits. But don't worry that children's hobbies will affect their studies. Parents should be objective and rational about their children's positive hobbies. A positive hobby, like an effective regulator, is beneficial to learning. When children have heavy learning tasks and great pressure, they can adjust their physical and mental state through hobbies, such as playing ball, playing the piano and singing.
Cultivate children's hobbies according to the situation Einstein once said that interest is the best teacher. When children have positive hobbies, parents should be happy, not worried. Clever parents often take advantage of the situation to cultivate their children's positive interests and hobbies within the range that their children can bear, further stimulate their interests in this area and cultivate their specialties. For example, children like football and basketball, or like programming, Olympics, reading and music.
Cultivating children's hobbies is not a trivial matter. Parents should first have confidence in education. After all, they are in an era of general anxiety about education and have to pay attention to their academic performance. To cultivate children's hobbies, you have to squeeze out some study time. If parents suffer from loss and lack self-confidence, children may fall into the embarrassing situation of "both lose and lose" in learning and interest cultivation.
Cultivating children's hobbies is not achieved overnight. Parents should have time, energy and economic foundation.
Of course, hard work pays off. As long as parents take the time and thought to cultivate their children's hobbies, children will be rewarded with surprises. Even if their academic performance is not top-notch, they will have more choices because they are interested in their own specialties. Even if the college entrance examination is not dominant, there are special enrollment paths such as art and sports.
Regardless of their children's grades, parents should correct their educational concepts, adhere to correct guidance, prevent their children from developing bad hobbies, respect their positive hobbies, and support their children to develop hobbies as much as possible.
Especially for children with good academic performance, parents should pay more attention to respecting and developing their hobbies, which will help them walk steadily and far on the road of learning and help them have a happier life as adults.
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