Most college students who are obsessed with learning and interpersonal relationships are poisoned by "important contacts". University is the last stage of life in which many people can study luxuriously in the years, and it is also the first time that people really have the opportunity to shape themselves with their own wishes. Education changes fate, and knowledge is power.

1. Compared with studying, the so-called interpersonal relationship in college is not important at all.

At the beginning of college, I also felt that by participating in various clubs and activities, I could meet many powerful people and expand my contacts.

Others want to exercise their so-called interpersonal skills, management skills, organization and coordination skills by joining some university clubs. However, in fact, after a few years, you are basically doing odd jobs in it. When you graduate, you put your club experience in your resume. HR won't even read it, but it will think it's a waste of paper.

2. The foundation of interpersonal relationship lies in potential value exchange. A worthless person, don't talk about interpersonal relationships. The word contacts is utilitarian, and I don't like it. But since we want to talk about it, we must be clear: the quality of contacts is more important than the quantity.

Learning is not only learning professional knowledge, but also learning to think.

Universities provide themselves with the best learning environment, such as libraries, such as strong teachers, and have almost no material worries. However, learning is more than just learning professional knowledge! If you want to be a valuable person, you must be diligent in thinking and summarizing while studying.

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It is easy to leave with more friends, which just shows the value of network resources. If you can make a few capable friends, it will really add wings to your career. Therefore, in universities, it is equally important to be able to accumulate all kinds of network resources without losing your grades.

However, the foundation of interpersonal relationship lies in the potential value exchange. A worthless person should not talk about interpersonal relationships. Want to establish contacts and make great friends? You have to make yourself strong first. When you are strong, like-minded people will naturally come to you and make friends with you. Because the essence of interpersonal communication lies in potential value exchange, the more valuable a person is, the more resources he has, and interpersonal communication is naturally smooth.

The fundamental factor that determines the quality of your interpersonal relationship is your own value and resources. If you are not good enough, your contacts are worthless. Not sought after, but attracted. Only by exchange of equal value can we get reasonable help. Only excellent people can get useful social interaction!

Just because you know more people doesn't mean you have a wide network. Only when resources are equal can we help each other. How many people you know and how many people approve of yourself are two different things. Before you are strong enough and excellent enough, don't spend too much precious time socializing, spend more time reading and improve your professional skills.