Some time ago, a provision in the graduate handbook of Dalian University of Technology caused a heated discussion.

This regulation says that if a student has unmarried sex during school, the school will give him a demerit or above.

In addition to Dalian University of Technology, many other universities have the same or similar regulations, including the famous Zhejiang University, Fudan University and Huazhong Normal University. There are also some universities that explicitly prohibit the opposite sex from staying in student dormitories.

Peng Xiaohui, a famous sexologist, believes that it is an individual right for unmarried adults to have sex, but if you are a student, you should abide by school regulations.

Peng Xiaohui also said that the school formulated such regulations to prevent some incidents that may have negative effects.

As early as 2003, a student in a university in Chongqing was expelled because of pregnancy.

In fact, there are very few people who are really punished for premarital sex in colleges and universities, but looking at these strict regulations, premarital sex may indeed be punished, which has to make people worry about these young people who are open to sex now.

It is indeed their freedom and right for unmarried adults to have sex, and schools have no right to interfere too much. But nowadays, young people rarely fall in love without having sex, which brings certain difficulties to the management of the school.

Therefore, while respecting individual rights and freedoms, we should give these young people corresponding positive guidance, give them necessary sex education, prevent the spread of infectious diseases such as AIDS, and prevent unmarried pregnancy.

In other words, you are not opposed to enjoying the freedom and rights of love, but you must shoulder the obligation to protect each other's physical and mental health while enjoying the freedom and rights, so as not to cause some adverse effects on yourself or the school.

In today's increasingly open and inclusive social atmosphere, it may not be feasible to explicitly prohibit college students' premarital sex, but the school has made such a provision out of a positive guidance, which we should understand and support.

College students are all adults and should know how to protect their physical and mental health and personal reputation.

It is neither desirable nor feasible for college students to have sex during their love. But as students, we should also manage our own behavior, and don't hurt ourselves and others because of some improper behavior. You know, the school is also good for you.

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Recently, another thing in the circle of colleges and universities has caused a wave of heated discussion, that is, Nankai University has launched a couple dormitory.

At this time, some netizens will ask: Isn't premarital sex forbidden? How to launch the husband and wife dormitory again?

It turns out that the couples' dormitory is specially prepared for married students, and both husband and wife must be master students or doctoral students of our school (this is the right enjoyed by only older people with high academic qualifications! )

The staff of Nankai University said that this dormitory was set up for students to concentrate on their study and scientific research, and the application conditions were very strict, not to encourage early marriage. Moreover, this dormitory is only open to legal couples who are registered to get married, and they must have a marriage certificate.

Nankai University is well-intentioned and makes students love learning!

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Whether it is to prohibit students from having sex before marriage or to open couples' dormitories to married students, these colleges and universities are all aimed at better managing and serving students, with the aim of making positive efforts for students' personal development and strict management of the school. They are all good schools that are serious and responsible to students and deserve our praise.

If you are a college student, if your school has such or such regulations, even if you don't agree, try to abide by them. After all, the main task of the school is to manage and educate students, and the school should also consider the future of students and the reputation of the school.

No matter how progressive the times are and how open people's minds are, students' main task is always to study, and they can't put too much energy into love, let alone let the adverse consequences caused by some irrational behaviors affect themselves and the school.

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