There is a lot of time for self-study in college. Classroom teaching is basically a few chapters in a class, and many contents and knowledge points may be passed in one sentence. Most of the content needs to be reviewed and studied independently after class. After all, the purpose of university teaching is not to teach specific knowledge, but to teach students' learning ability. Having strong autonomous learning ability is the basic ability to stand out in universities.
2. Have a glib tongue
Being good at expression and articulate is a basic ability, which is not only related to the future work, but also closely related to the study and life during college. Therefore, many universities now list speech and eloquence as compulsory courses, requiring college students to improve their language expression ability. It is a good choice to dare to answer questions in class and take the initiative to participate in debate contests and speech contests.
3. Interpersonal skills
The university is a small society, the class is a small community and the dormitory is a small unit. During your college years, you will meet different teachers and classmates from all directions. A sociable person is always the first to stand out. Actively participate in the student union, participate in student club activities, meet different people, and improve communication skills.
4. Time management ability
Four years in college is neither too long nor too short. How to grasp precious time and make good use of every inch of time is very important. Everyone in the workplace knows that it is not the working hours that widen the gap, but the time after work. The same is true of college study and life. Knowledge and ability are accumulated slowly in a little time. In particular, we should properly handle the relationship between studying and participating in student activities, between studying and being a student cadre, and allocate time reasonably.
5. Ability to endure hardship and pressure
From small to large, we all know the truth that "plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold, and the blade comes from sharpening". Universities are no longer the "happy universities" described by middle school teachers. In college, there are all kinds of exams, professional study and employment pressures. All need to constantly overcome in practice, self-decompression, and develop the ability to endure hardship and pressure.
6. Emotional control ability
Like time management, emotions need self-control and self-management. Don't lose heart when encountering failure, don't be anxious when encountering difficulties, don't contradict criticism, don't complain when encountering unreasonable phenomena, etc., all of which are manifestations of emotional management ability. Good emotional management ability is not only an important manifestation of high emotional intelligence, but also an inherent requirement of lifestyle and getting along with people.
7. Be willing to be alone
Modern society is a society full of temptations and interests, and universities are also full of many temptations of fame and status. Whether you can maintain your outlook on life, values and world outlook requires the ability to withstand loneliness. Being lonely doesn't mean not pursuing fame and fortune, but keeping one's feet on the ground and relying on real talents to learn. Strive for what you can get, and don't be jealous or even unscrupulous if you can't get it.
8. Careful calculation ability
It is said that you need to be careful when you step into society and get married. In fact, careful ability should be actively cultivated from the student days, especially from the university stage. No matter whether the family is well-off or the economic conditions are average, we must know that every penny earned by parents is hard-won, learn to be grateful, and use every penny carefully.