I will share with you two reasons for this result.
Benefits:
1. Not cost-effective. Accommodation in public universities is very low. For example, in our school for 600 years, eight people didn't have bunk beds, and the heating fan had a bathroom balcony independently. Even if you rent it yourself, even if you share it for one month, you can live in school for one year. If all of them are rented out, it is almost the cost of a better environment for one year.
You will lose many social opportunities. Most people don't know each other after they go to college, so you are familiar with the dormitory gang at first, and then you will gradually expand your social circle through these people. You may say that there is no effective social interaction, but at the beginning of college, you all want to have a good start and have good friends. Your roommates may also know your seniors and sisters, and sometimes they can help you to some extent. University is actually a small society, a social place.
3. It may affect your class progress, and the school may suddenly hold any meeting or activity, which is inconvenient. It's hard to say if you oversleep in the dormitory. Teachers may change classes temporarily, and schools may suddenly organize some activities when there is no class. It is still inconvenient to go back and forth. There are many locals in our class, and it even took 10 minutes to leave home recently.
4. Safety, as everyone knows in the recent Tangshan incident, safety is really more important than anything else.
You may need to go back to the school dormitory and spend an extra penny.
Disadvantages:
1. As I said before, the university is a small society, and it is inevitable that there will be friction. There are too many people in different parts of a dormitory, and their living habits are different from the three views, which may lead to a dormitory being divided. It is normal to have nine or more groups in a female dormitory in a university, and many girls will engage in small groups and isolation. These things have happened in our dormitory before, but the circle is different. Everyone understands this truth. If this happens, you can ignore them patiently, get better and work hard. If you really can't stand it, you can apply to move out, or you can ask the guide to apply for a dormitory (provided that there are enough dormitories in your school). You don't have to listen to so many people. There is a good chance that you are your problem. There are still many people who have no judgment and have never known this A person. But if you play well with another B, then if B says A is not good, maybe he will believe you. I didn't do anything wrong. Just be yourself. Although the university is a higher education, there are still many girls who learn from their parents.
2. Many people are easy to degenerate together, and there are some situations when playing games in class or playing in teams.
Roommates have different life schedules, which may affect your rest.
In fact, I think the advantages of living on campus outweigh the disadvantages.
I have been isolated in the dormitory, but I am not completely isolated, because I feel there is nothing wrong with myself. I am a person who will apologize immediately when I find that I have a problem, and I get along well with others. Because of the problem of the other three people (sleeping eight), everyone thinks that my personality is fine. One of the two leaders of this incident is the best roommate I have ever played, and I am really good to him. When he isolated me, others couldn't stand it, but I didn't choose to back down. When you find something wrong, reflect on yourself for the first time. I fell asleep in the middle of the night before. She went to the bathroom to talk to another leader, woke up the bed and woke me up. He got angry when I joked that I was going to throw you out. I reflected, maybe it was just a nasal awakening. It didn't look like a joke or anger, so I apologized to him in front of the whole dormitory after returning to work. But he ignored me and dragged others in the opposite direction. Later, I tried to talk to him but ignored me every time. I found that the stranger in another dormitory ignored me, and then the one who played well with him. I don't understand, but I tried to save it and didn't have the obligation to lick him all the time, and then I left. I didn't talk to him until it was necessary, because I thought I had done well enough, and then I got better gradually. The whole dormitory people don't know why they suddenly saw this person (including the other two), so there was less communication with him. He realized it. Later, he broke up with another leader and brazenly tore it up in class, so he moved back to live (a local). Later, he managed to live alone opposite our dormitory, tried to contact us in the middle, apologized to me, and things passed. Actually, it's no big deal, but some girls.