Consider the time cost first. It takes about two years from conception to delivery to confinement, and the university time is four years. Generally, the age at this time is 18-22 years old, which means that you have to make concessions for your children in the last most energetic and time-consuming college time before entering the society, and you can't absorb knowledge normally to improve your core competitiveness.
Secondly, consider the emotional cost. It's usually an accident to get pregnant and have children at this time. You have to say that you were brave when you decided to have a baby. But in China, although you are 18-22 years old, you are still a child in an ivory tower as long as you have not fully stepped into the society and experienced social training. How do older children take care of their children? What if the man is in charge but not in charge?
Finally, there are physical costs. I don't know if I'm just curious or if I'm the client. If you are a party, I suggest you look at the answer of what kind of physical and mental harm the pregnant baby in Zhihu will bring to the girls. Really cruel and realistic; In addition, the best childbearing age for women is 23-26 years old, and 25 years old is the best.
I always think that when and what to do is the best arrangement for such an important thing in life. Being pregnant because of love or lack of contraception at school, whether you plan to have children or not, will cause irreversible harm to your body, which is irresponsible for yourself, your children and the relatives involved.
Let's get ready for the birth of a new life.