School bullying is not an isolated phenomenon. These students have been bullied or harassed by classmates for a long time. In recent years, the school bullying incident has been escalating, and these bullied students can't get out of the shadows even when they are adults.
1, school bullying
School bullying, as its name implies, is bullied by his classmates at school. The forms of bullying range from isolation and exclusion to verbal ridicule and abuse, and even physical violence and beatings. In the whole process of bullying, there is always a constant threat of harassment, which makes the bullied object afraid to ask for help, thus causing great physical and mental harm to the bullied child. Yuan, the victim of this bullying incident, was finally beaten to death by his classmates. These teenagers possessed by the devil can be so cruel. It is really necessary for people to reflect on what causes these demon teenagers to be so rampant. Why are they so inhuman at such a young age? As an ordinary student, how to deal with this kind of incident? As parents and teachers, what should schools do to really protect these children and let them grow up healthily and safely?
2. Missing teenagers
Yuan is actually a lively and intelligent child with good family conditions. He is not the kind of introverted student with average academic performance we imagined, but he is such a promising child in the eyes of parents and teachers. He has been living in the fear of school bullying, and even dropped out of school because he was often blackmailed and beaten. Yuan, who had dropped out of school, did not escape the end of being bullied to death. Here we can't help but reflect. At this time, parents. In the meantime, Yuan had to drop out of school because he was often bullied, and his parents didn't communicate with the school in time, resulting in Yuan not escaping from bullying even when he left school! The inaction of parents and schools makes people feel incredible. Although these demon teenagers are hateful, the numbness of adults is also shocking! They may think it's good to avoid these people, so they won't drive their children away after dropping out of school? They may not have seriously asked about the details and the real situation of being bullied, and these are also the invisible hands that pushed Yuan to death. Yuanmou left his family, friends and all the beautiful things in the future forever!
3. You are a teenager
I believe many people have seen better days, and many people walked out of the cinema in tears. They paid a painful price for resisting bullying Chen Nian and Xiao Bei. Fortunately, they survived and were able to face up to their own lives, while Yuan was left in the cold darkness forever. Children who bully others are usually spoiled by their parents and family at home, but no one has ever paid attention to their mental health. Some parents may not know that their children are demons. These children rarely communicate with their families, and their parents basically ignore them and let them develop. These bullied children's families don't care enough about their children. Some children come from poor families and have a serious inferiority complex. Most of them are introverted and timid. They are afraid to talk to their parents and teachers after being bullied. It is precisely because of this that bullying will become more and more serious and hurt yourself more and more.
Step 4 resist bullying
For school bullying, we must fight back bravely and never tolerate it! As a bully, you must tell your parents and teachers not to give up the opportunity to help because you are afraid of being misunderstood and accused by them. As teachers, parents must pay attention to it and deal with it seriously. They shouldn't downplay it as a fight between children. Don't let these children with ghosts in their hearts be deceived, thinking that shaking hands and making peace will be fine. We should continue to pay attention to children's emotions, words and deeds, and help them in time if there are problems. If Yuan's bullying was discovered and intervened earlier, wouldn't that be the result? If these bullies had been warned earlier, wouldn't they have let such an innocent teenager leave with a grudge?
The survey shows that among 100 children, nearly 49 children have bullied others and 87 children have been bullied. This number is amazing. These 87 children will be affected by this incident to varying degrees in their later lives. It can be seen that bullying is not a trivial matter. If these juvenile criminal suspects are not severely punished, it will be a dangerous factor in the future society. This is already a top priority. Don't let Yuan's tragedy happen again!