Secondly, it will also affect study and examination. It's difficult to concentrate on your study if you are in conflict with your roommate or have been in a discordant environment. People's psychological and emotional state has a great influence on learning effect. If they are always distracted, their grades will be easily affected and exams will become difficult.
In addition, it will also affect social cognition. College life is an excellent opportunity to understand and know the society. Through the communication with roommates, we can understand the similarities and differences between people from different regions, different family backgrounds and different personalities, so as to better understand and adapt to society. If you only live in your own small circle, this kind of opportunity will be greatly reduced.
So, how to solve the contradiction with roommates? You can try the following methods:
Communication is the key to solving problems. Find a suitable time, speak frankly, tell your roommates your feelings and troubles, and listen to their opinions.
Empathy. Thinking from the roommate's point of view and understanding their thoughts and behaviors are helpful to alleviate contradictions.
Mutual tolerance. Everyone has their own habits and lifestyles, try to accommodate each other's differences and seek common ground while reserving differences.
Find a counselor or a counselor to help mediate. They have rich experience in dealing with such problems.
In short, not getting along well with roommates will really have a great impact on college life, but it doesn't mean it can't be solved. Through active communication and understanding, most problems can be properly handled. If you can't solve it, you can also consider changing your dormitory and finding a more suitable environment. After all, the university is a place for study and growth, and the contradiction in dormitory should not be a stumbling block.