1, "external beauty", the beauty of appearance should pursue the unity of external beauty and internal beauty.
Appearance beauty is the external beauty of human beings, but it is not absolutely opposite to inner beauty. On the contrary, it is the external expression of inner beauty, which is organically unified with inner beauty, and they are isomorphic to the overall beauty of human beings. Of course, in the overall beauty of people, the most important thing is not the external beauty of people, but the internal beauty of people.
How to make people's external beauty better reflect their internal beauty is the purpose of our pursuit of instrument beauty. A person with lofty ideological realm, profound cultural accomplishment and superhuman intelligence is a very beautiful person. With this inner beauty, the beauty of human beings can really be relied on. The inner beauty of the soul can leave an indelible impression, arouse people's deep excitement and leave a deep impression. It manipulates and controls external beauty and is the source of human beauty. It is precisely because of the existence of inner beauty that people can truly become perfect people and create sincere aesthetic feeling. Therefore, the most important thing in human beauty is inner beauty.
As early as in ancient China, there was a conclusion that "beauty needs to be sought from within", "wealth" seeks from within, and "wealth is beauty." Mencius said, "Enrichment is beauty, beauty and brilliance are greatness, greatness is holiness, and holiness is God." The beauty of China's appearance in ancient times seems to emphasize an inner personality charm, and the ultimate goal is to transcend the beauty in front of him and elevate a person's virtue to the broad position of the universal spirit. China's ancient aesthetics of "beauty needs to be sought from within" saw the essence of beauty, but its understanding of beauty was narrow.
External beauty is also a part of people's overall beauty and plays an irreplaceable role in people's overall beauty. Just like a house is divided into indoor decoration and outdoor decoration. Even if the interior decoration is comfortable and pleasing to the eye, if the exterior decoration is flashy and tacky, people will stay away from it. For a person, why not?
In fact, external beauty shows people's inner beauty from different aspects and is an extension of inner beauty. Nixon once described Premier Zhou in his memoirs: "He often leaned back and used expressive gestures to enhance the effect of conversation. When he wants to expand the scope of the conversation or draw general conclusions from it, he often waves in front of him; When the argument comes to a conclusion, he will put his hands together and his fingers opposite; At the meeting, he chuckled at some witticisms; When chatting, he becomes relaxed again, and sometimes he laughs because of well-meaning jokes. " It can be seen that Nixon was deeply impressed by Premier Zhou's expressive appearance. In fact, Premier Zhou's firm vision, calm manner and elegant demeanor are the concentrated expression of his lofty ideological realm, profound national cultural accomplishment and superhuman wisdom.
Of course, the harmonious unity of inner beauty and outer beauty is the ideal of instrumental beauty. But in reality, not all people can fully realize the unity of the two. Natural beauty is easy to become vulgar if it is not progressive; There is a long difference, but hard study and hard practice the day after tomorrow may make up for the physical defects, and even this mental light can make the physical defects be ignored. Students, when you are confused about your poor appearance, take active actions, constantly enrich yourself with knowledge and wisdom, and create profound inner beauty. Ceng Yun, an ancient man, was proud of poetry and books. This means that reading can make people full of unique elegance. Indeed, reading can cultivate people's self-cultivation, cultivate people's sentiment, enhance people's thinking ability, broaden people's school horizons and purify people's hearts. Regular reading can sublimate people's character, thought, self-cultivation, quality and self-cultivation in a subtle way.
In our real life, we can often see such a situation: at first glance, someone is as beautiful as flowers and jade, and looks like a fairy, really beautiful! Someone is charming and handsome, so handsome! But after reading it for a while, I feel bland. This is because her (his) beauty lacks connotation and depth and can't stand pondering and aftertaste. It is just an external beauty, lacking coordination and unity with the inner beauty.
On the contrary, Sun Wangquan in the old well-at first glance, this person is unattractive and plain. It took a long time to know that he was sincere and broad-minded; Very talented people, with stunts; Kind-hearted, hardworking and virtuous; The ideal is lofty, and the interest is transcendent ... In short, it has infinite human advantages and personality charm, and the beauty of its soul gives people a feeling far beyond its physical deficiency. Just like Bao Zheng, he was born with a black face, but his face is black, his heart is kind, his wisdom is outstanding, his integrity is in his heart, and his reputation for fairness and decency is manifested in his behavior. Heaven and earth praised him and admired him from generation to generation. This deep inner beauty makes people seem to completely ignore its external "poverty" and even push it from its inner beauty and its external beauty. Doesn't it look good in black?
In real life, we often have such experiences: when you see the works carefully created by artists, when you hear experts and scholars giving lectures in our school, or when you see successful people planning blueprints and pointing out the mountains and rivers, or even when you see just an ordinary person, when you are brave and helpful, or when you hear disabled people telling stories about their self-reliance, you will feel reverence, admiration and admiration. You have completely ignored how he (she) looks, whether he (she) dresses appropriately, and whether he (she) is elegant. Even if he (she) is ugly, you will no longer feel it, because at that time, you have been occupied by a noble thing, and his (her) beauty is not in appearance, but in the bone marrow and into the soul. -this is also a kind of beauty, a kind of beauty that transcends appearances, never disappears, and is even more unforgettable! This is the real charm of people.