1. No independent living ability
In college, our living expenses are still provided by our families, so we can't live independently. If you get married at this time, do you have to bear the huge pressure of life at home after marriage? And it is definitely impossible to be carefree and happy at school.
2. Affect learning
Be sure to spend more time with each other after marriage, which will lead to less study time. In class, we will talk about what we want to eat after class. In evening self-study, we will even skip class with the idea of going out to see a movie, which is a bit petty. Even we will stay outside to check in at night because of the idea of getting married, but we have no energy for class during the day. In this way, the light may be the retrogression of grades, and the heavy will be dismissed because of failing too many grades.
3. Universities don't have enough commitment.
Marriage means commitment. Maybe your family who got married in college is rich in material things, but lack of experience makes them less devoted. After marriage, when you are busy or impatient, the other party wants you to take her out shopping, and you will choose to refuse directly, because you are married, unlike when you are in love, what the other party says is more important. Before you get married, you find that any shortcomings you like about her are her unique side, but after you get married, you will find that she seems to have more shortcomings than many people of the opposite sex you know. Therefore, you people who don't know how to take responsibility will only have more and more contradictions, and you won't enjoy more love because of your marriage in college.
4. Not prepared for a long time.
If both parties get married, how should they choose after graduation? If one chooses South and the other chooses North, who will give up? There is no long-term consideration for college marriage, but what should we do in the face of various choices in the future?
The above four reasons fully explain that it is not suitable to get married in college. Everyone who has gone to college knows the fact that only 1% of people fall in love until they get married, and finally. So I think if we really love each other, why should we get married so early and stick to a form of marriage? If your long-distance relationship can last until graduation, and both of you can tolerate each other's shortcomings and help each other, you think it's not too late to get fully prepared before getting married.